UGH! ... Fed up.

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Hmmm bad day? Do you even really love her? Cause it sounds to me as if you guys aren't getting along too well.

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Who said you should be happy? Theres a whole spectrum of human emotions and its only normal to experience different ones. Unless your on prozac... Why is it that you feel you have to put on a front? Why don't you feel that you can be true to yourself and your emotions?

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what is the actual problem? i couldn't really make sense of the post!

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nice from what i gather he's a little depressed, but feels like he has to be happy all the time.

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have you explained to her why you are so upset? maybe you should just leave her to it til the morning if its making you feel worse talking to her? give yourself some space?

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Sounds like depression to me. I've had enough mates suffering from it to be able to recognise the symptoms.

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Depression is sitting at home alone while slowly wanking one off in the dark as you weep to yourself quietly.

I'd say you're a bit stressed out. Need a couple days to yourself just to sort things out.

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junker wrote:

Depression is sitting at home alone while slowly wanking one off in the dark as you weep to yourself quietly.

:rolleyes: Ahem..

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satehen wrote:

:rolleyes: Ahem..

Well I guess that was a little uncalled for. I'll try and be more clever next time :chin:

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I don't know if I'd dub this depression, without meaning to dig at Satehen's knowledge in the symptoms. I find that sometimes, I slip into a need to vent how I'm feeling, and still feeling rather shitty and low, but it not be as severe as depression - just considered a lull in the way at feel at the time. But maybe you are feeling slightly depressed, remember you're not alone and there is support and help for you

Alot of things seem to be getting on top of you, school and your girlfriend mainly. The 2 graphic images have probably swayed your perception of your girlfriend making you question her and how you see her maybe? What was in these sexual images that has confused you about her?

She seems to me, to be a rather...volatile person at times? Like she needs a lot of your attention, or she contradicts herself, causes arguments, seems so mean to you, and yet she's the person you know inside out, the person who you trust, who you love. The only way you can make her see how you're feeling, is to stop attempting to cover over the problems and let them lie...because they still exist beknownst to her. You need to communicate, in a civialised way because full on arguments are rarely constructive and if you're anything like me, they really get you down, make you question your relationship. Ask to just sit down with her and talk about things have have been getting you down.

You don't have to smile for other peoples sake you know. You can't always be a happy cherub. The more you pretend your fine, the more it'll eat you inside. It's not a case of her not having to put up with it, if she cares about you, loves you - she'll most likely want to help you feel better. You sound pressured by her, and fed up of minimal things being the root of a full on argument. For example, if my msn crashed whilst talking to my boyfriend...it wouldn't cause any problems at all. Because they're just a phone call away, a text away and with intimate problems, its understood they should be taken on face to face so there's no room for a wrong interpretation.

I can't think of much more to say, but I hope some of that helped at least.

Malt x

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This is not depression, this is someone being pissed off at their girlfriend for having porn on their computer. People are too quick to label everything as depression these days.

Probably be better off spending a while thinking about why two pictures has put you in such a bad mood.

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For starters I don't see why a couple of porn pictures on her phone is such a big deal? Unless of course they are of her with someone else.

Secondly, I may be way off track with this one but from what I've read it seems you are so clamped down under this girls thumb its unreal. Your worrying about tommorrow being a shit day because she will be pissed off cos your msn crashed while you was talking to her?? Now whats all that about, soz to be harsh but you need to grow some balls before she's taking you out for walks on a lead.
Like Malt monkay said this shouldn't cause an argument, its not your fault msn has failed and if it does cause an argument you need to stand up to her and tell her how it is.
You say you can't expalin to her because she will cop?? (i'm guessing cop means she will go off on one). This isn't a healthy relationship at all, feelings should be let known to our partners, especially strong ones which these obviously are. You're just gonna end up running yourself into the ground and your head is going to be totally screwed. You need to stand strong imo, talk to her and tell her exactly how you are feeling about everything and then try and work together to have more of an equal relationship instead of her making all the choices and you just sitting there and getting pussy whipped.

Sorry to be harsh, hope it all works out for you

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satehen wrote:

Who said you should be happy? Theres a whole spectrum of human emotions and its only normal to experience different ones. Unless your on prozac... Why is it that you feel you have to put on a front? Why don't you feel that you can be true to yourself and your emotions?

Hi, I'm just wondering where you got the information that you will experience a whole spectrum of different emotions unless you're on prozac??

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