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Me and my GF
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hey
i been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and a half or so... but all my
a-levels are stressing me out and they are giving me mixed emotions i think.
i feel like i dont love her any more another girl has popped in to my life who i have feelings for we have got very close twice touched tongues but the tongues did not go in each others mouths also is that cheating shall i tell my girlfriend ?
also part of this is that shes going to uni in sept so i know we will be breaking up then. :eek2:
its confusing me i been thinking if i split with my gf
what happens i made the biggest mistake of my life
she wont be here to call up any more when i want some one to talk to or just having her over
i stuffer from anxiety what happens if it goes up the wall.
and i just dont want to hurt her and im scared of what to do... :nervous:
i been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and a half or so... but all my
a-levels are stressing me out and they are giving me mixed emotions i think.
i feel like i dont love her any more another girl has popped in to my life who i have feelings for we have got very close twice touched tongues but the tongues did not go in each others mouths also is that cheating shall i tell my girlfriend ?
also part of this is that shes going to uni in sept so i know we will be breaking up then. :eek2:
its confusing me i been thinking if i split with my gf
what happens i made the biggest mistake of my life
she wont be here to call up any more when i want some one to talk to or just having her over
i stuffer from anxiety what happens if it goes up the wall.
and i just dont want to hurt her and im scared of what to do... :nervous:
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if you want my advice, I'd have to say your going to have to let her go. At this point, your just dragging her. And evenutally, she might notice it. And you've said that you've cheated on her, sorry, but bad move. The problem with that is that girls talk, so she might hear about it from someone else and she might be a little upset you didn't tell her or just the fact that you did it. I'm not saying she might find out right away, but she might find out later on.
Well, that's all I can really say. Hope I was of some help.
B honest with your g.f, but its up to u if u tell her about this other girl or not. i personally wouldn't - a break up will be hard enough for her, never mind telling her you cheated aswell. Id spend sometime time alone, or with ur mates+get ur A-levels outta the way b4 u try and get with this other girl!
SBG
Put her out of her misery, be a man about it
try not to think about it that way, make the choice you think is right, and live with it, as hard as that may be, it's the only way to do it...
in my opinion, you made your mind up when you kissed this other girl.
it was nearly a kiss i would say but you might call it a kiss ?
well if it was very nearly a kiss, then it means you wanted to give said girl a good snogging, which must mean you're not in the right place, being in the relationship you're in at the moment...
To be honst though it does sound as though you and your girlfriend have drifted apart and that you dont feel as strongly for her as you did.Sometimes these things just come an end naturally without anything to cause it such as a disagreement or whatever.
The fact is you cant stop thinking about this other girl and wanted to kiss her.This is unfair to your girlfriend to keep it from her so id do the good thing and have a talk about it with her.Chances are she wont be too impressed,but will be thankful that she found out sooner rather than later when you might end up cheating on her.
If you go about things amicably theres nothing to stop you being friends when/if you break up.Good luck whatever you do...:)
If you have to question whether it was cheating, then it obviously is. A good way to tell if it was cheating is to think how you would feel if she did the same thing with someone else.
And as has been said before, it sounds like this isn't a good relationship, if you think you're gonna break up just because she's going to uni, then it's not worth it. You're just drawing out the pain. For you and her.
If you want to be with this new girl, then you need to be a man and get the job done! But your game face on, and let the show go on!