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Former Member

hiii izit possibl for the hymen to not break when you have sex for the first tym does any1 no? duz anyone know how far up it is? because ive ad sex an im worried that bcuz i dint bleed i mite stil b a virgin and il look like a liar!! someone pleas elp :-S fanx xxx

Former Member

This can't be for real. Took me like 10 minutes to decipher that.

Answer (if it is for real...) - it may have already broken before you had sex, due to sports and stuff. Don't worry about it. Not everyone bleeds the first time - you're obviously lucky.

Former Member

How will you look like a liar? I mean, who is gonna know?

Plus you've had penetrative sex, thus you are no longer a virgin.

No one is gonna check to see if your hymen is broken just to check whether or not you are telling the truth!

Don't worry bout it.

Former Member

dat_gyal wrote:

hiii izit possibl for the hymen to not break when you have sex for the first tym does any1 no? duz anyone know how far up it is? because ive ad sex an im worried that bcuz i dint bleed i mite stil b a virgin and il look like a liar!! someone pleas elp :-S fanx xxx

if you've had sex you are not a virgin - simple as that.
your hymen might have already broken... that can happen playing sports, using tampons, - hundreds of different ways.
and a lot of women don't bleed after having sex for the first time... everyone is different.
also, don't use txt type - its really annoying.

Former Member

Like Shehasnotime mentioned, please please do NOT use text talk on this site. It pisses us off and make people not want to help you. But, to be nice and answer you question. If you have had penetrative sex then you are no longer a virgin. In most cases, if you are active, your hymen will break before you have sex for the first time.

Former Member

i wouldn't worry about it, i didnt bleed the first time i had sex, not everybody does.

It doesn't mean your still a virgin though and dont worry what other people think, you know that your not lying and thats all that matters

littlemissy

If you have had sex then you ain't a virgin. Many girlies hymens break in ways other than having sex, like playing sport. Also, what business is it of other peoples as to whether you are lying or not?

Also, please do not talk in text talk. It is irritating, hard to decipher and it puts people off replying to your thread.

Former Member

~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:

This should be in the sex forum dear

It is in the sex forum...?

Former Member

~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:

Was it not just in the Anything Goes forum or am I going a little crazy?

Its always been in the Sex forum as far as I can see!

Former Member

lol sorri i always talk in text talk ill try and write it all proper... no okay it was pretti much serious.... i know all about breaking it doing sorts etc but da thing i didnt explain properly was i was so pissed that i cant remember wether he got it all the way in or not and i remember saying that it was hard to.... hmm okay i no i aint a virgin but i just wanted to know if theres a way you can tell if your hymen is broke.... fanx xxx ohh and about the lying fing... its because some boys are w@#kers and i think he might be saying stuff!

Former Member

is that what its like when its written `proper`?

Former Member

yeahh :$ lol sorri but that was pretty full. I type just like i talk though. so its hard to write it all out write 2 u !

littlemissy

rainbow brite wrote:

is that what its like when its written `proper`?

The standard of some people's written English saddens me

Former Member

littlemissy wrote:

The standard of some people's written English saddens me

That was English? :no:

Former Member

dat_gyal wrote:

yeahh :$ lol sorri but that was pretty full. I type just like i talk though. so its hard to write it all out write 2 u !

Get better.

Former Member

j@ck wrote:

That was English? :no:

I thought it was American myself......

Former Member

not everyone bleeds when their hymen breaks, i didn't.

Former Member

thanks for replying about the message! and not tha english! lol yeah i didnt really explain it properly .... it dont really matter though! i did actually wanna know about the hymen thing. is there actually a way to tell if its broken? can virgins break it themself?! i saw some girl writing about it on here but i dont really get how someone could do that themself wouldnt it hurt a bit seeing as your controlling it aswel ? ..reply if ur bored!

Former Member

The hymen is a thin flap of skin inside the vagina, and it can be broken during any exercise, such as gymnastics or horse riding, as well as either by sexual intercourse or by using tampons.

Many girls do not have an intact hymen by the time they have sexual intercourse.

Also, for the record, learn how to type in something that at least resembles English.

Former Member

Kermit wrote:

The hymen is a thin flap of skin inside the vagina, and it can be broken during any exercise, such as gymnastics or horse riding, as well as either by sexual intercourse or by using tampons.

Many girls do not have an intact hymen by the time they have sexual intercourse.

Also, for the record, learn how to type in something that at least resembles English.

Yeah kermits right
With exercise the hymen become more flexible as such and altought its not quite broken it wont ahve lets say the bloody after efects of sex.
Horseriding is also quite common so its not unusual for girls to appear to have their hymen broken while still a virgin. hrough exercise those muscles get stronger basicaly

Former Member

Yeah you are right....It doesnt take just one sex section for the hymen to break of completely.It may take 3 or 4 times of sex sections to break it off completely depending on who is doing it tho....Well i think if the hymen is not broken then you are still a virgin but if its broken then you are not. Am talking from personal experience even though am just a guy. Ladies correct me if am wrong ok....