If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options
Masturbating: The act of loving oneself
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi. someone, not me, whacks the little guy around everyday. sometimes more than once. is it bad to masturbate everyday? is it normal to do it all the time?
PLUS does anyone have any suggestion how can someone stop it or stop thinking about sex?
PLUS does anyone have any suggestion how can someone stop it or stop thinking about sex?
0
Comments
very easy to say. but i just ended a relationship a couple of months ago. she wasnt hot or anything but thought it would been good to have a companion. but she didnt satisfy me sexually. and when we were together i still did it. is that normal? how normal for people in a relationship to do it behind the others back?
me and my boyfriend have a very active sex life, we have sex most days and its great for both of us. but sometimes im still so horny i do have some fun on my own. and i know he does too.
i dont think its anything to be ashamed of or that its at all pathetic.
if you do think its pathetic just dont do it. its up to you. its your own personal opinion.
i know i do it because im turned on and my boyfriend is at work or i cant see him right then, so i get myself off. there is nothing wrong with it at all. as someone said..its natural
how will the girl know that you have a 'full sack'? unless you tell her 'oh ive not wanked in 3 days' she's not gonna have a clue.
the only upside i can see is that when u do get to have sex with someone, you will last longer as you're more used to being able to control yourself.
Wanking is meant to be done.... the more times the merrier you'll be!
(bullshit in other words)
Oh and I like the way this thread within 2 posts changed fom being ya mate to you.
wtf?
What does it matter? People still wank with or without sex. If your feeling horny and your partner isn't around then why not? It doesn't matter is the slightest whether or not you go behind someones back.
Plus it can ease boredom
why would that make it pathetic? what if your partner isnt around and you're horny?
that would be obsesive.
okay... if this was meant as a serious question... i'd say: so what if you fuck yourself??! i think you'll find most guys do tbh. it is normal. it won't cause you any physical harm to do it each day if that is what you want to do. and its normal to do it even when you are in a relationship - you could even combine it with your partner helping you. or get your partner to masturbate you or do whatever turns you on. you don't have to stop just because you are in a relationship and you shouldn't feel like you'd have to. but out of interest, why do you feel you need to "stop thinking about sex" - would you say you are obsessed with it? or you feel it is wrong in some way? ........ ......... or when you wrote the question were you just taking the piss?
anyway, the friend of mine i was talking about wants to know if its okay to admit it to people that he masturbates? would you tell your girl or boy that you wank off the image of beckham or victoria? would you say it even to someone youre still trying to get on with?
of course its okay to admit to it... its normal for f**k sake... why do you feel you would need to hide it??? i mean, you don't need necessarily to point it out but ... i would guess the person you are trying to get with does it as well ... as do most people.
you need to grow up a bit mate.
Why would this sort of thin even enter the conversation?
To be honest, you should find other things to talk about than your wanking habits, in my opinion.
Having said that, there's nothing wrong with giving yourself some pleasure, so if you really want to tell the world that you do, then, hey, noone's really going to stop you.
im rather offended mate. yes wanking is normal and i know everybody does it. i know a girl who does it everyday. its natural to masturbate. even horses do it. and i do tell people i masturbate when the subject come up in a conversation. and yes it does come up in a conversation once in a while. i simply wanted to know what you all think. see there are deeper explanation why people masturbate all the time such as narcissism. its not simply because one gets horny. its about why one gets horny. (all the time for that matter). its an impulse and we cant just succumb to our impulses.
eh? :eek2:
can someone explain this to me and how that works?????