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Relationship on the rocks!!
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My partner and i have been seeing each other for a year now. I am pregnant at the moment but on the weekend I made a revelation to him..... in december, I had cheated on him with a male freind. I was in the wrong to have done it, there are absoloutely no excuses for my vile behaviour, but now that we have a child on the way I just want to sort things out and be happy! Anyone with any suggestions! He now does not trust me at all which I know would be expected but it is hard I feel he doesn't love me or the baby, it is his.
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There isnt anything you can do and he probably won't trust you completely ever again, all you can do is beg forgiveness and try and move on. don't expect him to see things your way though he just has to deal with it himself.
Well i dont know why say they love you and want to be with you but cheat on you at the end.I know its a mistake you did and could happend to anybody else but he didnt ask if u cheated on him or not. You just went to tell him, if you were faithful you wouldnt have cheated at the first place anyway. Well i think the only reason why you told him was because you were pregnant and using it a sort of security for the relationship.
There is a saying that what you dont know will not hurt you and now that he knows he is very hurt......