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Viagra - Do you Tell ?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I'm wondering what other people do ? I would assume most married men tell their wives but what about the singles ? How long after you meet a girl do you tell her , or do you ? I'm 44 and tried it about 2 years ago and think I'm too dependent on it now . Actually I use Cialis . I wish I never started , I feel like a porno star with it and a falling star without it :impissed:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well personally, if i was comfortable enough to have sex with someone i would think i would also be comfortable enough to tell them about it.
    Perhaps before you get down or dirty as you don't want it to be a moment ruiner or anything. I think it's another one of those things that depends on the situation/people envolved.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You don't have to tell anybody anything you feel uncomfortable with. It's nothing to be ashamed of..It's not like your partner is going to brandish you a leper and beat you with a stick if you tell them! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you aren't ashamed to take it you shouldn't be ashamed to tell peolpe. If you need it than the person your with should understand and appericate your desire to satisfy them. I know i wouldn't mind either way
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ski Commando wrote:
    I'm wondering what other people do ? I would assume most married men tell their wives but what about the singles ? How long after you meet a girl do you tell her , or do you ?
    you should tell her when you feel comfortable enough to tell her. - simple as. that. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe some women could shed some light on this . If a man tells you he uses Viagra or Cialis whatever , would it make you feel like it's your fault ? My last GF was SOooooo bad in the sack that I prefered whacking off than having sex with her . When we did , I needed it to get aroused as she could make a hardon go limp by looking at it . Obviously the relationship didn't last long .
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ski Commando wrote:
    maybe some women could shed some light on this . If a man tells you he uses Viagra or Cialis whatever , would it make you feel like it's your fault ?

    Depends. If he started taking it before we were together, then no not at all. Most women accept that some men depend on it.

    But if he'd had no problem in the past of our relationship, and started taking it halfway through, I don't know.... I could be reassured, yeah, but I think there'd always be something in the back of my mind "is it me?". Could just be me though.
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