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A place for sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I was just wondering...

I live with my parents, and they are at home most of the time when I am there. I don't have a lock on my door. So how should I go about having sex? And where?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nmrmak wrote:
    I was just wondering...

    I live with my parents, and they are at home most of the time when I am there. I don't have a lock on my door. So how should I go about having sex? And where?


    Erm, her house?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Let's assume that the situation is the same at her place too. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nmrmak wrote:
    Let's assume that the situation is the same at her place too. :)


    Does your bathroom have a lock on it? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably best to wait till they go out tbh - they are garanteed to walk in on you otherwise, untill they wise-up and know what you're up to :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol, I guess that the bathroom thing is out of question really. But I guess that the best way would be to make an "agreement" with my parents... It might get a bit awkward, lol
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    Teh_GerbilTeh_Gerbil Posts: 13,332 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Somewhere secluded out of doors?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    say mom, dad you never seem to treat yourself why dont you go out for a meal?
    although that sounds a little suspicious.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    folkrocker wrote:
    say mom, dad you never seem to treat yourself why dont you go out for a meal?
    although that sounds a little suspicious.
    Lol... nice idea.
    Btw, I see that it's your first post here.
    Welcome!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go to a hotel that don't cost to much. Maybe have some food out, go back to the hotel and have a few drinks then have a shag. Result.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Felix Da Housecat wrote:
    Go to a hotel that don't cost to much. Maybe have some food out, go back to the hotel and have a few drinks then have a shag. Result.

    She doesn't drink. The rest is ace. :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nmrmak wrote:
    I was just wondering...

    I live with my parents, and they are at home most of the time when I am there. I don't have a lock on my door. So how should I go about having sex? And where?
    Pub toilets
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    -[MoonRat]- wrote:
    Pub toilets
    Come on, I care about her, ok? :yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry...

    Bus stands are quite romantic though. Do you have a car?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    -[MoonRat]- wrote:
    Sorry...

    Bus stands are quite romantic though. Do you have a car?
    Lmao...
    I don't have a car...yet... :hyper: There are many ways to use the gear shifter and the hand brake...

    jk, i'd like it to be special all the time. Bus stations simply aren't (at least not in a positive way)
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    Teh_GerbilTeh_Gerbil Posts: 13,332 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    A nice feild?
    A Forest?
    A lift in a building?
    A Portaloo? :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teh_Gerbil wrote:
    A nice feild?
    A Forest?
    A lift in a building?
    A Portaloo? :lol:

    A portaloo? Blimey..that is roughing it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lmao Moon rat haha, what about a m8's house?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sexpod wrote:
    lmao Moon rat haha, what about a m8's house?

    Hmmm, that doesn't sound very kind though... "Hi, nice to see you, do you mind if I can use your house just so I can have a shag?"... I wouldn't be too impressed if I was the friend...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not meaning to sound like a bitch or anything but are you sure she wouldnt mind shagging in a hotel room...it would make me feel like a prossie :s
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Amira wrote:
    not meaning to sound like a bitch or anything but are you sure she wouldnt mind shagging in a hotel room...it would make me feel like a prossie :s
    Nah, i was just joking about the hotel thing. Especially as I'm 17, it would seem really rude (well, that's just my opinion).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    do your parents not give you any privacy? i don't have a lock on my bedroom but it doesn't stop me. is she not allowed to stay over?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lucifer devil wrote:
    do your parents not give you any privacy? i don't have a lock on my bedroom but it doesn't stop me. is she not allowed to stay over?
    I haven't had the chance to test my parents' respect for my privacy yet, and I hope that they will be supportive. Else I'll just put a lock on with no questions asked :D
    And no, she isn't allowed to have a sleepover.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nmrmak wrote:
    Lol, I guess that the bathroom thing is out of question really. But I guess that the best way would be to make an "agreement" with my parents... It might get a bit awkward, lol
    better than nothing i would have thought :lol:
    seriously though, what about her place?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I never used to have a lock on my bedroom door, i would just shut it, my parents never bothered me. Or if you are really bothered wait untill they are out maybe?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Where there is a will there is a way,

    id suggest shed or get train somewhere private or that and of you go, or just put chair or clothes under end of the door hard to open, or just go for it and try keep your ears open.
    Who knows mayb eif you do get caught or they here they might give U that bit of privacy.

    The hotel thing aint bad idea believe it or not, id say try get like a travellodge or b and b or something during the week to cause its cheapr.
    I used to have to do that with my ex and it was ice cause you can just go at it like rbits al night and not cre about noise or anything, done knock it till ou try it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Docter Lurve wrote:
    Where there is a will there is a way,

    id suggest shed or get train somewhere private or that and of you go, or just put chair or clothes under end of the door hard to open, or just go for it and try keep your ears open.
    Who knows mayb eif you do get caught or they here they might give U that bit of privacy.

    The hotel thing aint bad idea believe it or not, id say try get like a travellodge or b and b or something during the week to cause its cheapr.
    I used to have to do that with my ex and it was ice cause you can just go at it like rbits al night and not cre about noise or anything, done knock it till ou try it!
    Txt tlk...why?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ever think of this?

    Maybe I'm to green to have my comments welcome here but I don't think your questions should be "where should I have sex". It should be; "Can I support a wife and child when I'm 17."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm you are in a predicament! you need to do abit of fishing-find out when parents are at the doctors,out shopping, taking nanna out, stuff like that, then you can 'make a date' with your g/f
    If you live near rural areas you could go out hiking for the day and find a really far out secluded place, take some food and a blanket. I once did something similiar but a bloody german shepherd sniffed us out, i got my troos on before the dog-owner came tho!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bust1too wrote:
    Maybe I'm to green to have my comments welcome here but I don't think your questions should be "where should I have sex". It should be; "Can I support a wife and child when I'm 17."

    That's a whole different perspective. Some people find sex before marriage unacceptable. However, there are many forms of contraception today, and I see no reasons why she should end up pregnant. And if she does get pregnant, even with two forms of contraception paralelly used, then: yes I am ready to support her. But I think that it's not likely to happen.

    Thank you for your ideas everyone, keep them coming.
    I especially like the sarcophagus one :D
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