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guy needing oral hints

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi i've never given oral and my girlfriend wants me to go down on her...i am pretty good at fingering her but i am scared to give oral.....does anyone have any hints for me to help me get over the fear and any hints o how to do it good? thanx


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm sure i could write an essay here (doesn't mean i'm good at it, means i've looked into what is and what isn't and i do my best), but i'm quite tired so i'll try and stick to a list

    - work around her vagina, don't go straight for it...nibble her groin, trace her inner thigh with ur tongue etc
    - don't jump straight for the clit, circle her inner/outer labia and every now and then give a little thrust inside
    - when working on the clit, slide in a finger just to keep her moist and occupied
    - be gentle on the clit at first, breathe heavy on it and the like...
    - trace the alphabet with your tongue on it, pull apart the lips of her vagina to make it more sensitive
    - when she's gettin more and more excited, give little sucks and perhaps eventually a little bite to it...

    keep going whilst she cums (depending on how sensitive your lady is) and if she's up for it, you may wanna finger both holes whilst your down there

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; hope it helped
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; That is good advice, a more professional technique is called the "Makiven" technique.
    To do this 'come at it' from the side and not head on. Lie with your head in her lap but across her legs... not between them. With two fingers at either side of her clit (warm her up first!) bring it out, ie: stretch the hood. Her clit should be accessable so furiously lick it like there is no tomorrow. You should start off gentle, soon she will be very pleased indeed. Your other hand should feel her paraneum to check for convulsions, I mean contractions. When you feel those you know you are hitting the spot. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    Spice things up further by finding her g-spot, it is usually about 2 inches in on the roof of her vagina. It may feel a different texture to the surrounding area, keep gently rubbing it until she is howling in delight. If she lies forward penetrate her from behind with your fingers as it may be easier to locate, just behind the pubic bone.
    Good luck, be fearless, and get stuck in. Keep at it, practice makes perfect. My g/f can't get enough... you must give to recieve!
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