fed up of being treated like shit!!

Former Member

i just wanna rant really.

theres this guy that i like loads and for a couple of months he was saying he liked me and then he'd ignore me or wateva, but i still like him but i just admired him from afar and i knew nothing was gonna happen. so the other night i got a msg from him saying this is my new number bla bla so i text back and the concresation ended with him saying maybe we could start to see each other as boyfriend and girlfriend and i really do like you alot. then the next evening he phoned me and i went out with him and his friends, he even drove 20 miles to pick me up and then he took me home aswell which was sweet of him. the night was abit boring as i didnt really say much as i didnt know anyone, and then i didnt hear from him. then yesterday at college i was stood right next to him in a group of people and he completely ignored me and didnt even acknowledge me and it upset me abit. then when i got home from work last night i had 4 missed calls and a msg from him saying do you wanna come out tonight and stay round my friends house with me, i said no i didnt want to go because he was so rude to me and he sent a msg back saying he was really sorry for ignoring me and he didnt mean it, and i aint heard from him since. i am so angry at the way he treats me like shit and only contacts me when he wants something (he wanted me to stay at his friends house with him, hmm i wonder what he wanted :rolleyes: ) grrrrrr. ahhh glad i got that all out.

Former Member

f**k him.
not intended literally...
if you feel he treats you "like shit" - he's not worth it.

Former Member

Believe me, it helps to get it out

I always follow the rule of actions being louder than words. He might text you and leave you messages saying how much he wants to be with you, but his actions suggest otherwise. Blanking someone is very sad.

Sounds like you're best shot of him, he can't treat you like shit if you nip it in the bud and don't allow it.

Former Member

He ignored you once and seemed keen to want to make it upto you.

I hardly think that constitutes as 'treating you like shit'

If he is treating you badly in other ways then just chuck him

Also- here is a handy hint- never agree to be someone's bf/gf if they ask you over text message

Former Member

if thats treating someone like shit i must have been abused

Former Member

Aww...your making me think I should have beaten my bloke in our early stages...for some reason he used to do that with me. Nowadays if he blanks me a little round his buds, it usually means giving me the space to try and get talking and getting to know them. He used to do it alot when we first strted going out - it was odd, but I spoke to him about it once and he said he didn't want his friends to be all like 'Aww here we go' by being all lovely and cuddly with me as they were all single at the time we started out. We'd being seeing each other beforehand for a couple months and were just coming out as an official couple and he hadn't been with anyone 'genuine' for a while and same with me - just sorta adjusting to the fact that you've got a gf/bf...it's odd I know but do give him a chance. Speak to him about it - I did and it made the world of difference cause he didn't really realise it until me and a few of his friends pointed it out. My blokes friends are mostly blokes so, my bloke looking all loved and gooey with a girl why socialising with your mates can feel like a bit of repellant and they might not feel very comfortable?

Malt xxx

Former Member

i didnt tell you the whole story. if i had have done that i wouldve gone on for years, i only wrote about what happened the other day. and i didnt say i was going out with him after he sent me the text about being boyfriend and girlfriend.