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Abusive boyfriends
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A friend of mine is in a relationship with this guy that takes some pysco pleasure in hitting her. She loves him very much but she does want to get out of the relationship, she just doesn't know how to go about doing it without making him lose his temper and really hurt her.
Does anyone have any advice on how I can help her? Any ideas on how to break up with him without making him mad?
Does anyone have any advice on how I can help her? Any ideas on how to break up with him without making him mad?
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I was once to in a violent relationship. Due to it, it has messed up my life. There is no way of breaking up the relationship, she has to do it by choice. I know you are looking out for your friend, but if she loves him it is going to be difficult. There is no way of getting out without someone getting hurt. You can help her by supporting her and letting her know you will be there for her always. If you want to talk about it any further pm me. Like I said, i've been there, went through 18 mths of hell and lost my child because of my stupidity! xxx
Then, she should be safe. He sounds like a fucking jerk. Its best off if he can't get another girl to abuse.
be there for her and support her.
you might find this article useful, for advice on how you can help her:-
http://www.womensaid.org.uk/help/help_friend.htm
and if you/ her want further advice, you/ her could call:-
http://www.womensaid.org.uk/help/national_helpline.htm