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Hey everyone! I'm new to this website, and new to the whole boyfriend, girlfriend thing. I need one question answered. I went to this place last night with my boyfriend and a few other friends, and there was this one girl that he kept flirting with, when he was almost right in front of me, and im pretty sure he knew i was watching him, and he kept flirting.....my question is, is this ok? like should i just let him flirt, or should i tell him how i feel? i need an answer ASAP please. 
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Define flirting. And talk to your 'boyfriend' about how you feel.
He might've been trying to make you jealous or something silly like that.
most probably! and he shouldnt be doing that if he really cares how u feel. he is obviously very insecure! talk to him about it, tell him u dont appreciate it and if he does it again well theres ur answer.
Hey it's me again....Taken by a Jew. well we havent gone to that place anymore so the flirting with that girl doesnt annoy me anymore, but when we're at school, he acts like he knows im his g/f and he likes me and stuff, but he flirts with some of the other girls, just by talkin to them, poking them, doing the guy kind of flirtin, and i dont know what to do, i dont rele like it that he's flirting with so many other girls! wat do i do. advice asap please! ps- im 14 years old, and we've only been going out for 22 days.....
Hey it's me again....Taken by a Jew. well we havent gone to that place since then so the flirting with that girl doesnt annoy me anymore, but when we're at school, he acts like he knows im his g/f and he likes me and stuff, but he flirts with some of the other girls, just by talkin to them, poking them, doing the guy kind of flirtin, and i dont know what to do, i dont rele like it that he's flirting with so many other girls! wat do i do. advice asap please! ps- im 14 years old, and we've only been going out for 22 days.....
Hello.... and hunny, you are both young and from my experience, most young lads will behave like this.... its not nice but if you really don't like it, talk to him and tell him.... and please, don't sleep with him!!
hi. i know i've posted this question over and over, but i was in my swing dance elective today, and when i wasn't dancing with him, he was over flirting with these two other girls, and i didnt rele like it that much, and i dont know what to do. We've been on 2 dates and i've been to his house twice, after how many dates could i start thinking about getting a kiss?
Look, just go out with her! What's this fuss about getting a kiss? If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't!
malt xxx
hey, um stargalaxy...i know u said i was new, and yea i am. then u said that i should just go out with her, well just to make it clear, im a girl, going out with a guy. lol
its not nice to have happen to you but until its a serious comitted relationship you can't really complain as he may not be as involved as you.
just because they havent kissed yet doesnt mean its not a relationship!!!!!! he is still her bf and should treat her with respect she deserves which includes not flirting with other girls. i'd really be interested to know wat u think a proper relationship entails!!!!???
hun if this guy gonna keep treating u like that kick him to the curb!!!!
kissing for a start.
they are early teens and tbh...why shouldnt he flirt? most blokes do and maybe he just isn't currently in a serious place - yet. who knows?
im am postin a message on the same flirting subject. my b/f keeps on flirting with these two girls, all the time, and probably flirting with these 2 girls, almost, maybe even alittle bit more than he actually talks to me. he flirts with these girls when im around him, and he knows im there. do i just let him do that, do i break up with him, or wat? WHAT DO I DO? I CANT TAKE IT!
hey, well i really like him, so i dont want to dump him, but i just dont like it that he flirts almost more than he talks to me.....it just bothers me alittle
ill probably talk 2 him bout it, cause im goin ova his house on sunday. and i got advice from another girl, ill just start flirting with him more, and like give him a hug or somethin. :flirt: :flirt: :flirt: :flirt: :flirt:
ill probably talk 2 him bout it, cause im goin ova his house on sunday. and i got advice from another girl, ill just start flirting with him more, and like give him a hug or somethin. :flirt: :flirt:
hey well, im goin over 2 his house on sunday with 3 otha girls, so we'll see wat happens. But i am gonna kiss him, i just dont know how to get him so he's next to me, i've never kissed a guy b4
am i the only one thats gonna post ne thing. well i went to his house today, but unfortunately I did NOT get to kiss him...oh well, maybe another time.
so, do ne of u ppl have a gf or bf?
Kids these days......