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Ok so I haven't been with someone in over a year. i have no regrets and don't wish for any sex. I have my own rabbit to keep me happy but I sometimes think is it weird for a 23 yr old not to miss actual sex? I really don't care for it anymore and so much so that I don't even try to pull guys. I am happy being a singleton so don't wnat to have a relationship but so many of my mates in simialr position are desperate for sex.
Does anyone else out there not give a damn about getting none? I mean I have a sex drive or I wouldn't want to say sleep with orlando bloom but I just don't want it! Never thought that day would come! (pun intended hehe!)
Does anyone else out there not give a damn about getting none? I mean I have a sex drive or I wouldn't want to say sleep with orlando bloom but I just don't want it! Never thought that day would come! (pun intended hehe!)
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are you the sort of person who could have sex outside of a relationship? some people arent and if you are one of those people and you are really not into relationships at the mo you probably wont worry about sex either. i was like that too. my best mate is the oposite and thought i was nuts!
Everyone's different.
Why jump straight into a relationship and be tied down/restricted yet again? If its the real deal love than thats cool but too many people go half hearted into a relationship for the sake of being with someone or to be seen as being part of a couple. How many people are in one sided relationships and are being unfair to their unknowing partners by being with them when really they are just with them for sex/for the sake of it until they find the one?
Im single and have a pretty high sex drive, if a one night stand comes up or I meet someone of the same opinion then I may take the opertunity, but I can err.. easily take care of myself to release any tension in that department at any time. So I can easily live without sex. If I meet THE ONE then a relationship it will be, but im not desperatly looking thats for sure.
I was one to kinda cheat-not always sex but I found it hard being faithful-a bad point I tried hard to change last "not a proper boyfriend" relationship I had. I guess this is a nother good reason why i should not worry! At least i'm not hurtin anyone!
I guess I was in a dither because I did have a very high sex drive before! But hey these comments ahev really helped me out. thank you
"Why jump straight into a relationship and be tied down/restricted yet again?"
I take it you don't mean bondage?! hehe! sorry couldn't resist!
I can honestly say that when I was single I didn't really miss sex. The first couple of weeks I did but after that I wasn't interested. I was more interested in the whole package, not just random sex.
So yes, I certainly don't think you are weird or anything like that.
I've been single since last May and i don't really miss the sex that much. I can't be bothered with one night stands that you meet in town but i just haven't got the time/committment for a relationship. I suppose it all boils down to the fact i've not met anyone recently who i can really see myself altering my lifestyle for. There's one person who i'm close to and i know if i turned round and said yep let's have a relationship i know i'd be able to but since he doesn't want casual and i don't want serious then it's not fair on him for me to let it go any further.
I'm happy just to continue as i am (even if i do end up an old maid ) instead of rushing into dating someone i can't muster much enthusiam up over. With my horse and pet committments it's hard to explain to a lot of blokes that i don't have a lot of me time.