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pain during sex
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i know this has been done but a search hasnt given me an aswer that is helpful.
about a month ago is tarted having sex with my new boyfriend (not my first time) and it was all fine, no pain or anything.
the last couple of weeks when we've had sex its hurt. i dunno why though. i cant remember feeling torn or anything like that.
i have to make him stop cos it hurts so much. but then other times its uncomfortable.
any ideas what could be causing it or any suggestions to ease it?
would leaving off it for a week or so maybe help? that way if i am torn or something it would give it a chance to heal?
quick replies appretiated
about a month ago is tarted having sex with my new boyfriend (not my first time) and it was all fine, no pain or anything.
the last couple of weeks when we've had sex its hurt. i dunno why though. i cant remember feeling torn or anything like that.
i have to make him stop cos it hurts so much. but then other times its uncomfortable.
any ideas what could be causing it or any suggestions to ease it?
would leaving off it for a week or so maybe help? that way if i am torn or something it would give it a chance to heal?
quick replies appretiated
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might be going at it a bit too rough?
might have a STD?
might be torn?
...
could be any number of things?! could try it... might help?!
I'd give it a week or two to heal properly, which would include no penetration, including fingers, tampons (you wouldn't want the fibres to be deposited in the tears :eek: ), sex toys etc.
However, I would see a healthcare provider if it doesn't get better, gets worse, or you're worried about anything anyway.
For more information, NHS Direct might be a good idea.
i dont think its a problem of not being aroused enough cos i REALLY want it, but then it hurts
maybe we've been to rough recently and ive torn, we're gonna leave off it for a couple of weeks, see if that helps
ps: I bet you can't hold off for two weeks
thats not helpful
I was only playing :crying:
In all seriousness though, when I worked for XVGN I'd post on the Gaming Update forums. They had a debate&discussions forum there - in all seriousness one guy from somewhere in the US was hugely against sex. He swore that it was nasty, dirty, sinful etc etc :crazyeyes And he wasn't joking!