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5" girth. Too thin?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
OK just curious, recently a girl felt my boner thru my jeans and said I'm too thin.
I'm 7.2" long [measured from the top] and 5" girth. I'm ok with my lenght, just wonderinga bout the girth part.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If a girl is saying that you're inferior 'too thin' then she's no good for you & you should just laugh @ what she has got to say as she's not worth your time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea, it was just a half drunk girl in a bar, but regardless I was just wondering what other girls tought, no need to be nice just honest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Crispy wrote:


    tnx, I already know that I'm slightly longer than average [at least according with most polls I've seen] and average in girth.
    I was wondering what girls like, might not be the same thing.
    I'm also aware than most women would preffer thicker if they could chose, I was just wondering if 5" girth is too thin. Like a turn-off or something.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is that a circumference? Or a diameter.. and if its a diameter, that better not be inches.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't worry about the size, girth etc. - its how you use it, that's the main thing!!!
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    I would say that either she can't feel or you can't measure.

    Seriously though, how the fuck is she going to know this by feeling your "boner" through your trousers?!?

    Methinks you haven't measured properly also.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Serpent wrote:
    Is that a circumference? Or a diameter.. and if its a diameter, that better not be inches.
    I would say that either she can't feel or you can't measure.

    Seriously though, how the fuck is she going to know this by feeling your "boner" through your trousers?!?

    Methinks you haven't measured properly also.

    Girth= thickness around. I measured corectly with a string around the thickest part. 5" around and 1.85" wide. I don't know what the diameter is.
    The girl is a known size queen that asks pretty much all the guys she knows how big they're dicks are.
    She was making fun of me because I'm only 5'5" tall and 125lbs she said I must be usless small in the pants.
    Girls I had sex with never complained in fact my ex gf couldn't even take me comfortable all the way in with some position regardless how much foreplay [like her on top]. But she was a virgin before me and my dick was the biggest thing she had in the 3years we were togheter.
    So thats why I was curious, I haven't been with a girl in a while and this whole thing definetly didn't helped my confidence.

    btw the girl I'm talking about is a 21year old 5'2" asian she just started dating a 6'4" guy and all she talks about is how she hopes hes got a big one.
    Poor guy better have a big one cos she has no compassion what so ever. She was even laughing yesterday at how rediculous a tall guy like that would look with a small dick.
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    The girl is a known size queen that asks pretty much all the guys she knows how big they're dicks are.
    She was making fun of me because I'm only 5'5" tall and 125lbs she said I must be usless small in the pants.
    Girls I had sex with never complained in fact my ex gf couldn't even take me comfortable all the way in with some position regardless how much foreplay [like her on top]. But she was a virgin before me and my dick was the biggest thing she had in the 3years we were togheter.
    So thats why I was curious, I haven't been with a girl in a while and this whole thing definetly didn't helped my confidence.

    btw the girl I'm talking about is a 21year old 5'2" asian she just started dating a 6'4" guy and all she talks about is how she hopes hes got a big one.
    Poor guy better have a big one cos she has no compassion what so ever. She was even laughing yesterday at how rediculous a tall guy like that would look with a small dick.

    This girl sounds like all talk to me. If you have had no complaints in the past then I wouldn't worry about it.

    And the girl, well, it wouldn't surprise me if she isn't *really* getting it, just pretending. Ignore her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This girl sounds like all talk to me. If you have had no complaints in the past then I wouldn't worry about it.

    And the girl, well, it wouldn't surprise me if she isn't *really* getting it, just pretending. Ignore her.


    Tnx your very nice, but I'd really like to hear a straight answer from a girl. Even if its not what I'd like to hear.
    Is 5" around a turn off for being too thin or is ok?
    Sorry for being soo cought up on this, its a guy thing I guess. :banghead:
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Tnx your very nice, but I'd really like to hear a straight answer from a girl. Even if its not what I'd like to hear.
    Is 5" around a turn off for being too thin or is ok?
    Sorry for being soo cought up on this, its a guy thing I guess. :banghead:

    I am rubbish at estimating so I don't know what 5" is. however, the way I see it is it is just this girl who is causing this problem and if you have had sex in the past and had no complaints then I wouldn't worry about it.

    Seriously, I wouldn't give this a second more of your thought. This girl sounds like she was stirring. And you are well above average size too :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe itd be easier for us if you compared it to a common object. And not a ruler.
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    I have been with a guy who was pencil thin (well, not quite but almost) and one who is quite big and was satisfied both times.

    To be honest, I also think there is a thing as being too big.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pencil... thin? Seriously?

    I always thought "pasta dick" was a man who worked at a church.
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Serpent wrote:
    Pencil... thin? Seriously?

    I always thought "pasta dick" was a man who worked at a church.

    Well, no, not quite pencil thin, but I have been with someone who was fairly thin and definitely smaller than this 5".
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mine's probably about half that in girth. And I sometimes think I'm hurting her. But maybe she's got a small vagina.

    Actually I'm saying some really stupid stuff.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Serpent wrote:
    But maybe she's got a small vagina.

    Actually I'm saying some really stupid stuff.


    :lol:

    bless you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK just curious, recently a girl felt my boner thru my jeans and said I'm too thin.
    I'm 7.2" long [measured from the top] and 5" girth. I'm ok with my lenght, just wonderinga bout the girth part.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To be honest I doubt that the opinion of some random who feels your dick through your trousers is really all that important.

    The size of your "tool" only matters to you and your girlfriend, so if she's happy with you it's no business of anyone else's.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Girth= thickness around. I measured corectly with a string around the thickest part. 5" around and 1.85" wide. I don't know what the diameter is.
    The girl is a known size queen that asks pretty much all the guys she knows how big they're dicks are.
    She was making fun of me because I'm only 5'5" tall and 125lbs she said I must be usless small in the pants.
    .


    Or she could giantititus? :chin:

    No but seriously, this girl is clearly displaying her ignorance to the world. If I was drunk enough to grope some guys willy through his jeans I tell ya I would have to have been in such a terrible state I wouldn't know arse from elbow, let alone be able to measure a penis size accurately.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't worry about the size, girth etc. - its how you use it, that's the main thing!!!
    :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LifeStyles Condoms has conducted research into the average length and circumference of the erect penis during Spring Break in Cancun and found that the average penis length is 5.877 inches, with the majority ranging between 5.5 inches and 6.3 inches. The average girth is 4.972 inches, with the majority ranging between 4.7 inches and 5.1 inches.
    ...


    Yea, I already knew my girth was considered average.
    Thing is I walk in a porn shop and most female toys as thick as me are vibrators. Just normal dildo's 85% of them are thicker or much , much thicker.
    Was thinking that whats average for dicks and what women need could be two very different things.
    Oh well, I have about as much chance to get my willy to vibrate as I have to make it any bigger so I'll just have to live with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Damn. I'm measuring tonight. I feel small :\

    (Girthwise, which is apparently what matters)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK this still bugs me, no female here has any idea what 5" girth looks or feels like?
    For curiousity I mesured a banana [a medium one I would say] and it end up being 5.1" in girth at its thickest point. Does that give any idea?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you search you can probably find what I'm talking about; but I remember someone saying they were 4.5" in girth and one of the girls here compared it to something - I think it was a bottle, and said it was plenty big enough.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm 5.1". You're alot bigger than you think. I dont know why you lose perspective down there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I read something about avg girths, and according to that, your girth is very large. I always thought mine was too but I never measured the girth.
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