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BDSM and Abuse ?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
BDSM: - I'm curious - Do most people do it because they are acting out abuse that they have already suffered?

I ask because a lot of the time I have sex, thats what I feel like i'm doing... "acting out" ... so I was just sort of wondering, becasue I don't really understand why anyone would WANT to be "abused" or give "abuse" - even though it's not abuse ... obviously, because you are consenting to it. But... ermmm... :confused:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cos the bondage part and submitting can be quite a turn on :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bdsm

    never done it
    but want to try.................any tips/offers
    hee hee

    :crazyeyes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this was not exactly a "do you want to try it thead" :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cos my earlier post wasn't really answering your question:

    i've never been abused so it wasn't 'acting out'. i actually enjoyed submitting to my partner because it turned me on, and i trusted him enough to know he'd stop if i wanted him to
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