Letting a guy cum on your face...

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I think it is the most degrading thing ever to a woman. :eek2: my close guy friend said that it's his #1 fantasy. :yuck:

I have never had this done to me and it never will happen. :no: I dont have a problem if my guy cums in my mouth, but ON the face, I'd freak out. Is it just me that finds this utterly repulsive??

Guys, if this is your fantasy, please tell me why because I don't understand how it can be erotic or hot in any sense.

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I agree with that it is degrading, but more than that i believe that it represents domination specifically that of women. :lol i'm so redundant:

The Domination of women has been a theme replayed throughout history and across varied societies all over the world. It is the reason why fraternal gang rape occurs [contrary to the belief that pleasure is the #1 motivating force].

American society is no different. The image of dominant males, usually white or black, tall, physically fit, and sexually desirable is a theme shown as desirable in the media.

If you don't want to blame society, then blame evolution. By this i mean blame that men are naturally animals who have instictually been programmed to dominate females and each other.

Do i fantasize about cumming on my girlfriend' face? No I don't. I do whatever my girlfriend wants me too in bed within reason, i know this makes it sound as if i'm whipped however know this: Because i do what she likes, i get to do what i like and as a result. The cause and effect relationship equates doing stuff in bed together more frequently. Although its not always in bed.

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I uh... can't really answer that.
Pornstars love it, but they get paid. I've never really done stuff with anyone but I can't imagine a whole bunch of girls would like a lad unloading on their faces.
Not a very pretty picture.

I guess what sp33dracer said was pretty valid though. That just doesn't sound very appeasing.

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ewwww i would never have a guy cum in my mouth, i hate the thought of it spurting out and hitting the back of my throat!! - the thought makes me heave! but i have had a guy cum on my face, there's nothing wrong with it but it does go EVERYWHERE which is the downfall... it was with a long term boyfriend and i wouldnt have some random guy cumming all over me, that is degrading. when its someone you love intently then it aint so bad knowing that they dont think of you as a slag!

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here is my two cents worth, basicly i've cummed on my gfs face. it wasn't a fantasy though, it was... cumming on her face.. thats all, only problem is.. not hitting them in the eye

I can see both POV's on this, to why they wouldn't mind it or would mind it and find it degrading.

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Err, I've never had it done to me before. It does seem slightly degrading, having a girls face covered in cum - I think I'd feel a bit embarrassed!

But I can see why men might like it, kinda the whole domination thing.

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Hellfire wrote:

here is my two cents worth, basicly i've cummed on my gfs face. it wasn't a fantasy though, it was... cumming on her face.. thats all, only problem is.. not hitting them in the eye

I can see both POV's on this, to why they wouldn't mind it or would mind it and find it degrading.

I feel sick....

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I don't see a problem with it.

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not convinced pornstars really love it, like u said they get paid,im sure some of them are just acting

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I would rather in my mouth than all over my face. I've never had him cum over my face but then again he's never asked.
Ew i'm just imgaining it in my hair and everything bleugh.

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not something ive ever tried to do, or something thats on my wishlist of things to do...i dont think its degrading tho. its only fluid...

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koe_182 wrote:

not something ive ever tried to do, or something thats on my wishlist of things to do...i dont think its degrading tho. its only fluid...

fluid.............that is meant to go elsewhere

im not saying i know how to treat a lady here, but i sure know which sticky situations are better to be in than others

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MrG wrote:

fluid.............that is meant to go elsewhere

im not saying i know how to treat a lady here, but i sure know which sticky situations are better to be in than others

Its not meant on the rest of the body either but people do. I really don't see the problem, its only spunk.

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We should be thankful for spunk!

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i think u should give it a go before u coment as i find it quit good but others might not

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My b/f says he wants to cum on my face, but I told him he has no chance. That is just one thing I would NEVER do, no matter how horny I am. I just find it a turn off. I'll let him cum in my mouth or on my breasts,etc. But never on my face. It's tacky and just a wishful thought for the guys as they watch too much porn.

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I wouldn't like anyone to cum on my face. However if I loved someone I'd consider it. Maybe.

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It's not something I'd ever be comfortable with either, although I can't decide whether that's because I think it's disrespectful, disgusting...or both.

Aside for the obvious mess, what is the turn on about it? It seems so plainly to be some kind of power-trip for a bloke (or as C2bK said, some misguided fantasy from watching too much porn) and I can't honestly see how anyone would get any pleasure from it...least of all the owner of the face :eek2:

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It's a porn thing. Make's you think the girl you've just done to is really dirty and some blokes get off on that fact.

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My bf came on my face...he didn't mean to, he was making his way up to my mouth to cum in there instead :yeees: . Have to admit, I found it hilarious, certainly not degrading. I mean as someone said, it's just bodily fluid, slightly amusing, can be seen as a bit kinky by some, my bf found he thought it was quite kinky and like, being in a relationship, it's now one of those things to remember and laugh about. Not something I'd voluntarily repeat but I hardly felt smutty and degraded by it...it was just funny to me...!
Malt xxx

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dont think i'd like a guy to cum on my face intentionally. i dont let my b/f cum in my mouth or anywhere on me. he wants to cum on me though - does that turn a guy on?

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For me, it was actually my gf who suggested it. Its not some immense turn on or anything, but my gf getting off on it gets me off kinda thing so...theres the appeal i guess.

I dont see it as any big deal...this whole degrading to women idea seems ...well, stupid really to me. I dont know about other guys but ive never gone ahead and done something a girl said she didnt want to....so by that theory, the women who have taken a shot in the face wanted it....doesnt sound so degrading if theyre choosing to do it to me. Its kinda like the whole "porn degrades women" argument...i mean, yeah such a degrading proffesion where you get paid at least 2 or 3 times that of the men for doing what you signed up to do by your own choice....*sigh*

Peace

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if it's someone i love and they respect me then i cant see the problem

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AlmightyBob wrote:

For me, it was actually my gf who suggested it. Its not some immense turn on or anything, but my gf getting off on it gets me off kinda thing so...theres the appeal i guess.

I dont see it as any big deal...this whole degrading to women idea seems ...well, stupid really to me. I dont know about other guys but ive never gone ahead and done something a girl said she didnt want to....so by that theory, the women who have taken a shot in the face wanted it....doesnt sound so degrading if theyre choosing to do it to me. Its kinda like the whole "porn degrades women" argument...i mean, yeah such a degrading proffesion where you get paid at least 2 or 3 times that of the men for doing what you signed up to do by your own choice....*sigh*

Peace

I've never found porno degrading to women either. Maybe cause I quite like porno myself

And respose to newbie, my bf loves it...I'd prefer him coming IN me personally but, I'll take the good with the bad

Malt xxx

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nothing wrong with a bit of consented domination soemtimes

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I don't have any preferance but my last gf liked it on her face and in her mouth for what its worth.

JsT

Hellfire wrote:

I can see both POV's on this,

Someone been cuming on your face Hellfire?

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Teehee

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JsT wrote:

Someone been cuming on your face Hellfire?

ur dad ;x

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J wrote:

In historic Japan an unfaithful woman would be made to kneel in the village center and all the men in the village would take turns to spunk all over her face to humiliate her.
I think I'll write to my MP and see if this can be re-introduced to this country.

Ahh! So this is where the age old Japanese tradition of bukkake originated from then!

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Its the sentiment behind the act which is degrading, not the act itself.

Enjoyment is subjective, some people like being pissed on, but most would find it degrading.

If you and the other person want to do this its NOT degrading. If you dont, then maybe it is.