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How old were u wen u lost your virginity?
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I just wanna know wats the average age for a girl to start doing it. Im 14 and still a virgin but i know a lot of people my age that r not.
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I was on this website-can't remember which one- and the average age for girls to lose their virginty is 19!! This puzzled me, cos most of my friends lost their virginity when they were 14/15. I think it's probably because of those ppl who wait till they're married before they have sex.
I can't remember what it is for lads, - i seem to remember it's 17 but i could be wrong.
Hope i've helped.
xxxxxxxA
[This message has been edited by TheAngelicPieface (edited 23-09-2001).]
virginity is there only as long as you want it to be. if you want to have sex, do it. if you don't want to have sex don't, it's that easy.
Tai
Most of my mates either haven't lost their virginity yet or were between the ages of 15-20 so it varies a lot just as other ppl have said!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Best to wait until its someone you care about.
Not really through choice, just because iv never been with someone that i felt ready with. I now think that i am howeve, so might not be long <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Lxxx
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Freedom of Religion means any religion !
I think that it has a lot to do with whether you are happy with the idea of sex. It took me a while <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
I don't see losing your virginity as such a big deal... I know a lot of teen-agers put a lot into it, and a lot of relationships become sexual way too early. All I can say is that it is up to you. Don't feel pressured into it.
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Who's name does God use in vain?
a lad in my school slept with a girl when they were 9, but....? how could they know what they were doin?
and I'm still with the same bloke!
Only did it when I knew I was in love
nothing Religious or anything.
[This message has been edited by byny (edited 26-09-2001).]
To be honest it was messy and it hurt like hell, vowed I'd never do it again! And I never for a year(ish)!
Made up for it now though!!!
Be proud.
I was 25 - almost 26
That's right be proud of it. I know it feels like you have to lose it as fast as you can when 'all my friends have done it' but if it's not right for you, then it's not right. Simple as that. Do it when you feel comfortable with it.
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I was 14
and I soo wish that I had waited.
It was at a youth camp, we were all more than a little drunk, and I dont even know what the guy's name was.
I think that it might have been Paul . . . or was it saul?
Anyway, I wish that I hadnt.
Carve your name into my arm, instead of stressed I lie here charmed
its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif">
I was 13, resivour duct, far too young
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
(no religious hint and not meant sarcastically)
Susie <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">