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Size 12

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I think all this size stuff is bollox.

I dont care what size the girl is - if she looks nice in a dress thats all that matters - I'm a 34' waist - which everyone thinks of as fat - but if you saw me you wouldnt think i was over 32'. I carry what weight i have very well and thats all that matters !!!

Personally - i like girls who are curvy !!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good for u!!! but the thing is with this size debate - it then means that jennifer lopez and the girls from hear'say r fat!!!! coz they are all size 12's its a healthy size!!! and ne way size shouldn't matter!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm size 14, so according to the media I'm probably obese.

    To be honest, I don't think really skinny people are that attractive, I prefer them more cuddly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont have a favourite "size" the issue is how they come accross, personality, EYES, face, there actual body size isnt really an issue with me. Lxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think its great that people dont really find the skinny look attractive and feel nobody needs to worry what people think, however the problem isnt that in my oppinion... well not for me anyway.

    It dosent matter how much people say u r not fat or how much the scales even show u as being not fat...some people will feel this way whatever. It isnt about being bothered that other people think u r fat or horrible its about how u feel towards yourself. In some cases no amount of reasurance and compliments will change how a person feels they are themselves.

    I know for a fact I will always feel fat and ugley etc etc no matter what. I felt it at 5 1/2 stone so that says it all really. I do care what people think of me, but this is not what effect me being fat or not....i will feel it towards myself regardless of the facts unfortunatly.

    Just thought Id say that coz its difficult for people to see that some people dont feel good about themselves full stop and its actually nothing to do with wanting others to find u attractive, but how u feel yourself that is the issue in some people <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You are right about it being important to feel good inside - I am not the most confident bloke in the world simply because i worry too much about how other people percieve me. Sometimes my paranoia gets the better of me even though there is nothing to worry about !!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive just been into london 2 buy some jeans and tried on hundreds of size 16's and none of them fit! wot am i 2 do? go and eat i suspose!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree wit everything Lolly has said. No matter how much ppl tell me i'm not fat & i'm not ugly i never believe them. But thats just me. I care a lot about wot ppl think of me & i know i shouldn't but i do & i can't stop. Even if i woz a size 6 i think i'd probably still feel this way.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Loadsa blokes say they prefer curvy girls - why aren't there any where I live?!?! lol.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Where do you live ??

    I am on the prowl for a lady friend !?

    Any offers for a successful bloke !?

    ;o)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hope you're only joking, this isn't a place to pick up girls.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Merely flirting - i hope it doenst cause offence !!!!!! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Most guys i know (including me) prefer curvy girls. But i don't know your area or the guys that live there - they're missing out by the sonds of it!

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    damn, i wish some of these guys who like curvy girls would move here to oxford, it's not fair!!!
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