new bf

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Right well I just got a new bf and he ain't that good luking but he's really sweet so ive given him a go. Im sleeping at his after a gig in november and he's on about sharing his bed, and im a bit nervous to be honest with you coz I dont really feel ready for sex and his rents wud be in which wud be awfully embarrassing... then agen he is rather shy and i dont think he would try anything but what should I do if he does?
I dont know what to do, heeeeeeeelp!

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Originally posted by weaversgal:
Right well I just got a new bf and he ain't that good luking but he's really sweet so ive given him a go. Im sleeping at his after a gig in november and he's on about sharing his bed, and im a bit nervous to be honest with you coz I dont really feel ready for sex and his rents wud be in which wud be awfully embarrassing... then agen he is rather shy and i dont think he would try anything but what should I do if he does?
I dont know what to do, heeeeeeeelp!

I slept in the same bed as my gf on our first date, I couldn't believe my luck. However all we did was cuddle, which in my opinion it is a lot better to be cuddled all night by your gf.

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the first time i shared a bed with my b/f we didnt have sex. i think he wud have wanted to (obviously, he is a bloke!! lol)
neway like i said nothin really happened cos he knew i wasnt ready. We'd spoken about sex together and that i didnt feel ready at the time and things went great. If you feel that its too early in your relationship at the moment to start having a deep and meaningful with him over sex, then wait until closer to the gig, then jus explain how you feel. You never kno, by then u may even feel ready.
Good Luck
How old are you by the way?

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If i was you i would talk to hima bout it and let him know that your not ready yet. If hes shy like you say he probably won't try anything so i would wait and see how it goes.

If he does try something that your not ready for just say sorry and explain that your not ready - a bf who cares will understand that!

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yea i agree
if he's any sort of a nice boyfriend he'll just want you to be happy and comfortable
you never know, he may well be having exactly the same doubts as you are

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is that lyndsay may! ha ha!

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thanx for your opinions guys, it's helped me a lot, ill be 17 on thursday the same day as i bury my gran what a gr8 bday thats gonna be <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;