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fudge
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So I was being a bit intimate with a girl recently (if you know what I mean), and she whispered into my ear "I want you to kill her". I quizzed her about it afterwards, and she denied the whole thing. But I swear, I wasn't drunk, I hadn't done any drugs, I was totally sober, and she whispered that into my ear. What the hell am I supposed to make of that???
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You don't gain anything by pretending it never happened.
And remember, MATURE people can talk about things without being embarrassed.
You know, sit her down face to face and talk through it. I know you can get through this, we all have experiences like it from one time to another.
Don't lose hope, we're here for you.
Love is hard.
I hope she's really THAT good at giving head.
Keep?
No, so it looks like your wasting yer time....tara.
Well, when we read a REAL problem we usually come up with some REAL advice.
So far you've not really had a problem, other than you thought that someone you were shagging, you has a boyfriend anyway, asked you to kill someone but then denied it.
My advice to this very REAL problem would be:
1. Stop shagging other blokes girlfriends.
2. Try Otomize, it'll help with your hearing problems. Failing that, a trip to the GP (for ear as well as STD advice) mightn't go amiss.
Ok, so if she didn't ask you to kill anyone, erm... what exactly is the problem you want advice with?
OK THEN! What you actually meant to put in speech marks was the following:
'I want you to kill me' not her which does actually make it look like she whispered the words 'I want you to kill her'... her being a third party.
If she actually said 'I want you to kill me' then what your original post should have read is this:
She leaned over and whispered that she wanted me to kill her
OR
She leaned over and whispered 'I want you to kill me'
Either way, she's obviously a kinky bitch whose into bondage etc. The fact you ignored her and didn't start strangling her then and there indicates to me that she was embarrassed at what she had said so later denied it.
Dear god man if a woman tells you she wants you to kill her in the bedroom you're meant to reach for the handcuffs then and there! Shame on you mister.
You're not? Ah well I'm done with you now m'dear.