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Shitty Bang Bang
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Sorry if this turns out to be a long, illegible rant but I need a good rant.
Ok, so my boyfriend of nearly 2 years cheats on me.. Well snogs some girl with a lot of tattoos whilst drunk at the pub. He tells me the next day and then says that he doesnt love me. Storms out the flat with a luggage bag(we lived together) and basically acted like I was in the wrong..
I do the usual break-up thing. Cry a lot. His friend Luke comes round to ask to borrow the keys to retrieve his laptop from the flat. I hand him over the keys (Big mistake- trusting people). A few days later Luke turns up again asking for the keys to collect his stuff. I stupidly hand them over. Afterwards I sense something is wrong. It doesnt take 2 journeys to collect one laptop.
Me and my friend Zoey walk to the flat and see Luke and some random friend walking up the hill with him. Luke tells me there is an 'emergancy' involving his girlfriend and the tatooed chick that Justin snogged. And that he'll be back to get the stuff later. Luckily, I tell him that I'll get his stuff from the flat, and he can collect his belongings from my mums house.
Me and Zoey arrive at the flat. They had raided the cupboards and taken penguin chocolate bars and left the wrappers scattered around the living room. There were the remains of a Goodfellas (Perfect Pepperoni to be precise) pizza shoved in a bin. Cans of beer around the living room. It looked like they had had a party..
I'm fuming at this point, we drag Luke's shitty belongings (motorcycle helmet, jacket and skateboard) back to my mums. I dump them onmy mums drive for him to collect. Which he does.
Now the next bit, Justins cousin turns up wanting a 'word'..Anyone who wants a word obviously doesn't want to have a nice talk with you..My brother sensing trouble tells her I'm not in.
A few days later, my mum and her boyfriend go to the flat to round up my belongings. Justin, his cousin Nicola and Luke are there. They had told Justin to leave my stuff in the bedroom and put his stuff in the living room so it didnt get jumbled up. For some reason Justin had put his shitty, mouldy computer desk in the bedroom. So my mums bf naturally assumes he doesnt want it to chucks it outside.
Nicola takes it upon herself to start yelling abuse because apparently Justin didnt trust us with his stuff..and us throwing his computer desk out proves it. Meanwhile my mums boyfriend is trying to chuck her out the flat. She refuses so he basically pushes her around to get her out the flat. This girl really knows how to press peoples buttons..The police are called..My mums bf gets charged with assault and given a caution and told he cant go near the flat again.
Next day my mum and her friend go to the flat to pick up my stuff to be taken to my mums house. They had splattered paint all over the bedroom. On the walls, used a mop to rub it in the floor...they wrote Happy Christmas on the walls in black-marker and left the front door wide open.
Unfortunately there is no evidence to suggest it was them.
They got away with it scott free.
Soo a shitty 2 weeks for me....Sorry it was so long everyone. I just needed a rant.
Rach x
Ok, so my boyfriend of nearly 2 years cheats on me.. Well snogs some girl with a lot of tattoos whilst drunk at the pub. He tells me the next day and then says that he doesnt love me. Storms out the flat with a luggage bag(we lived together) and basically acted like I was in the wrong..
I do the usual break-up thing. Cry a lot. His friend Luke comes round to ask to borrow the keys to retrieve his laptop from the flat. I hand him over the keys (Big mistake- trusting people). A few days later Luke turns up again asking for the keys to collect his stuff. I stupidly hand them over. Afterwards I sense something is wrong. It doesnt take 2 journeys to collect one laptop.
Me and my friend Zoey walk to the flat and see Luke and some random friend walking up the hill with him. Luke tells me there is an 'emergancy' involving his girlfriend and the tatooed chick that Justin snogged. And that he'll be back to get the stuff later. Luckily, I tell him that I'll get his stuff from the flat, and he can collect his belongings from my mums house.
Me and Zoey arrive at the flat. They had raided the cupboards and taken penguin chocolate bars and left the wrappers scattered around the living room. There were the remains of a Goodfellas (Perfect Pepperoni to be precise) pizza shoved in a bin. Cans of beer around the living room. It looked like they had had a party..
I'm fuming at this point, we drag Luke's shitty belongings (motorcycle helmet, jacket and skateboard) back to my mums. I dump them onmy mums drive for him to collect. Which he does.
Now the next bit, Justins cousin turns up wanting a 'word'..Anyone who wants a word obviously doesn't want to have a nice talk with you..My brother sensing trouble tells her I'm not in.
A few days later, my mum and her boyfriend go to the flat to round up my belongings. Justin, his cousin Nicola and Luke are there. They had told Justin to leave my stuff in the bedroom and put his stuff in the living room so it didnt get jumbled up. For some reason Justin had put his shitty, mouldy computer desk in the bedroom. So my mums bf naturally assumes he doesnt want it to chucks it outside.
Nicola takes it upon herself to start yelling abuse because apparently Justin didnt trust us with his stuff..and us throwing his computer desk out proves it. Meanwhile my mums boyfriend is trying to chuck her out the flat. She refuses so he basically pushes her around to get her out the flat. This girl really knows how to press peoples buttons..The police are called..My mums bf gets charged with assault and given a caution and told he cant go near the flat again.
Next day my mum and her friend go to the flat to pick up my stuff to be taken to my mums house. They had splattered paint all over the bedroom. On the walls, used a mop to rub it in the floor...they wrote Happy Christmas on the walls in black-marker and left the front door wide open.
Unfortunately there is no evidence to suggest it was them.
They got away with it scott free.
Soo a shitty 2 weeks for me....Sorry it was so long everyone. I just needed a rant.
Rach x
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What an arsehole
Thanks *hugs back* I went out tonight with a male friend and I think I spent the whole time bitching about my ex
Rach x
at least you know you better of without him
did you tell the cops?
Phoenix
Yep, the thing is they were devious about it..By leaving the front door wide open it makes it look like it could have been anyone. The police agree it was them but just say it isn't worth the hassle and there is insufficient evidence.
Spoke to the landlord (MHS Homes) today. The good thing is I dont have to pay for the damage. The bad thing is..neither do they. They class it as criminal damage so sort out the repair work themselves. I wish they could have at least got a telling off from the police. It feels like they've got away with it..Which they have
Rach x
**million**hugs**
oh... and he will pay for that... they call it karma
T x
He sounds like a psycho, I wonder if he lied to his friends and family about how you split.
Sounds like ur well out of it mate.
Breaking up after two years is hard work (I've just done it myself, too), whether the guy is a gentleman or an arsewipe, so I send oodles of sympathy your way. But I must say... it sounds to me like you're a much better person than he is, and in the long run you'll be happier without him. And for what it's worth... he wont get away with it. Something's gonna come up and bite him on the arse for this. Dontcha worry.
x
Thanks for the support everyone. I am way better off out of it. Just sad that I didnt pick up on this sooner.
Rach x
i wana join in... ((hugs))
But yeah, you're better off not stooping to his level, it's just sad and pathetic.
Ah well, we live and learn sweetheart. Just be glad you don't ever have to have anything to do with him again. (See my thread "Warning" in Anything Goes.)
Rach x
Good for you, girl! x