Porn and girlfriends...

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Do porn and girlfriends go together?

i mean, do all you girls with boyfriends out there mind us lads lookin at a bit of porn on occation or do you find it offensive?

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Depends on the girl.

It's only really a problem if you look at porn instead of doing it for real.

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Personally I don't find it offensive unless the guy becomes fixated with watching porn rather than doing the real thing. Oh and also commenting on the porno chick's body and comparing it to the real life gf's is not a good thing.

Rach x

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Lol, i would never use it as a substitute...thats just stupid.


Thanks for the feedback though.

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Originally posted by ~*STRESSED*~
I'm personally offended about it.

I'm a very insecure person and if my boyfriend watches or looks at porn, I feel like I'm not good enough.

Silly I know.

Thats the answer i was dreading! (Thanks anyway though).

If i dont know about whether my gf is bothered by it or not do i keep it a secret (not really a secret, just dont mention it) or do i tell her?
Doesnt sound too good though does it:
"Heya honey what you bin up to while i was gone?"

"Watching lesbians and wankin off to it.. you?

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If your gf gets offended by porn it's her problem not yours.

Though if you would rather keep the porn than the gf it would be worrying...

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I think it's normal for a girl to be offended by porn, and it's not her "problem".

I don't mind my boyfriend watching porn as long as I'm with him at the time and he's not drooling over anyone but me If he was doing it away from me I'd be worried, which is perfectly normal. Every girl has different standards.

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don't mind at all.

i'll watch it with him if the need arises.

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Originally posted by HunnyPot
I think it's normal for a girl to be offended by porn, and it's not her "problem".

I don't, and I don't understand why any girl would be except perhaps on religious moral grounds.

It's not like the bloke is going to go and hump some porn model (the word actress being too kind) is it?

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Originally posted by Kermit
It's not like the bloke is going to go and hump some porn model (the word actress being too kind) is it?

Agreed, but the thought of my boyfriend masturbating over another woman, thinking those thoughts and ejaculating over her makes my stomach turn. Even though it's just a body to look at.

Although I am quite an insecure person, I still feel like that's a normal feeling for a girl to experience.

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I used to watch porn with my boyfriend. Major turn on, boring on your own though.

did I just say that? whoops

JsT

Originally posted by Knee High Stripy Socks
I used to watch porn with my boyfriend. Major turn on, boring on your own though.

did I just say that? whoops

You can't delete it either. Or edit it now its been quoted

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Originally posted by HunnyPot
Although I am quite an insecure person, I still feel like that's a normal feeling for a girl to experience.

It is if you're insecure.

Generally I think secure women don't mind their blokes looking at porn, and insecure women don't like it because they assume (wrongly) that it means she "isn't good enough" or some such nonsense.

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i dont mind i'd watch it with him if he asked

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I don't care about my boyfriend watching porn. At least I know he's doing it, rather than him saying he's not, lying to me and watching it anyway. It's all about honesty in a relationship - if he wanted a blonde girl with big fake boobs, he could go get one. Obviously he'd rather be with me

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Originally posted by Kermit
Generally I think secure women don't mind their blokes looking at porn, and insecure women don't like it because they assume (wrongly) that it means she "isn't good enough" or some such nonsense.

That's about the sum of it.

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Originally posted by Kath2003
I don't care about my boyfriend watching porn. At least I know he's doing it, rather than him saying he's not, lying to me and watching it anyway. It's all about honesty in a relationship - if he wanted a blonde girl with big fake boobs, he could go get one. Obviously he'd rather be with me

Yeah, that's my opinion too. Well, it was for the last boyfriend I had - this one doesn't seem too bothered by it. I said seems.

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Originally posted by Kermit
Generally I think secure women don't mind their blokes looking at porn, and insecure women don't like it because they assume (wrongly) that it means she "isn't good enough" or some such nonsense.

i'm pretty insecure, and if i found out he was as much as chatting to a real life woman i'd shit a brick.

but what's he gonna do, go shag a pornstar? he wishes.

that's the basis for my opinion.

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Originally posted by kaffrin
i'm pretty insecure, and if i found out he was as much as chatting to a real life woman i'd shit a brick.

but what's he gonna do, go shag a pornstar? he wishes.

that's the basis for my opinion.

Well that's insecurity tempered by logic.

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You could always leave a "soft" porn mag lying around, something like ZOO or something....If she freaks out you'll know she's not into porn. Then just say (as my boyfriend does!)
"But...the sport pages are excellent "

:rolleyes:

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me and my g/f watch porn, top stuff :thumb:

You can do the whole "lets do what they do" thing. bwuahaha

Slyly replace the vid with anal intrustion or glaze my face and you know you're in for a happy ending.

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I think one thing about porn that a lot of people need to understand is that the guy isn't wanking over that particular woman, he's just thinking about the sex, and the acts. I think the majority of guys aren't bothered by the woman, although having said that a woman who can act the part better of having sex is obviously going to be more of a turn on.

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Originally posted by kaffrin
don't mind at all.

i'll watch it with him if the need arises.

hip hop honeys then tonight darling?

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I'd never be with a girl who was so insecure I wasn't allowed to watch porn "cos i wanted to bang the porn star". My gf loves it, she watches it with and without me. I don't feel insecure even though the women are getting banged by 12" beasts.

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Originally posted by big_man_with_a_
hip hop honeys then tonight darling?

or chick flick :flirt:

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Him watching porno doesn't bother me. I found my ex only wanted to watch it if I was there too...the current one has yet to discover the delights!

If my bloke did say "Aww she's so *insert compliment*..." or t'other such remarks - THAT'D PISS ME OFF, but like otherwise, whatever gets him going is all fine and dandy with me...!

Malt Munk xx

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Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
I think one thing about porn that a lot of people need to understand is that the guy isn't wanking over that particular woman, he's just thinking about the sex, and the acts. I think the majority of guys aren't bothered by the woman, although having said that a woman who can act the part better of having sex is obviously going to be more of a turn on.

it must be the way the woman looks, because i cant see men wanting to wank over a big fat greasy 50 year old midget lady because its "for the sex"

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Personally It does bother me a bit, but I'd never stop my bf doing it. I know it's not that he wants other women but I find it hard to get over the idea that my partner is looking at soemone else and getting off on it.
I'm glad I'm not the only one it bothers anyway.

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Originally posted by smashingpumpkin
Personally It does bother me a bit, but I'd never stop my bf doing it. I know it's not that he wants other women but I find it hard to get over the idea that my partner is looking at soemone else and getting off on it.
I'm glad I'm not the only one it bothers anyway.

Yeah i agree, its the thought of him looking at OTHER women to pleasure himself that bothers me... It makes me think im not attractive or sexy enough for him, or that my body isn't good enough, or that he wants to be with someone "better" etc etc. It's silly i know, but i just cant help it *shrug* :rolleyes:

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girlfriends & porn

I Love watching porn, with or without my man. But I am a very naughty girl. Some girls just cant take it.:p