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Self Harm, Eating Disorders and Depression

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Give us a hand someone, I'm a 22 year old female whos life is going down the pan. I got virtually suspended from my job today because I have been so mompolised by depression, anxiety, personality disorders, self harm and lord knows what else my work was SHIT. My boss said that my collegues had been coplaining about me for some time. Well doesn't that make me feel better!! As if I want to work somewhere where just cos you have a few problems people bitch about you behind your back. Fuck the lot of ya. That doesn't mean to say that I am utterly, utterly about to hit rock bottom. I need friends, please.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's a friend <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I'm sorry to hear everything's being shit for you atm. Go on, tell us about yourself.

    {{{{{ citrus }}}}}
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ((((((((citrus))))))))

    Oh honey!

    Tell us all about it.

    Everyone @ the site is lovely,u will make some great friends here.

    <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks so much for your replies. It made me feel better just to know someone is listening. As I said I'm 22 (well nearly) and have had depression for some time. I also cut myself a lot. I am upset at the mo because I feel as though I am drifting apart from my friends and have no-one to talk to, so I have joined various message boards online just so I'll have somewhere to go and talk. Hope to speak again soon.
    Citrus Fruit <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry-want to turn my signature on!

    I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nice sig <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's quite a few people on here with experience of self harm, we do know what you're going through. Come and talk to us and you'll get lots of support and understanding. <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    cu soon.

    Life is but a story with no end yet written. As the author of your story, you are the ruler of your world, if not of the process of finding the end :).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by citrus_fruit:
    sorry-want to turn my signature on!


    NooooO!OOOOOOOO!OO!OOOO!O!O!O!O!O!O!O!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That was my sig until it became a fallacy. Long story, but basically one person (namely Luka) decided that my mind belonged up my rectum. Thus, I changed it from "I didn't lose my mind/It was mine to give away" to "I didn't lose my mind, it was..." whatever, i've forgotten my sig (d'oh). But I'm now gonna have to shun you for the next 5 minutes cos you stole my sig lol <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Welcome to thesite citrus. We'll be here to help and support.

    Turtle <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    hiya citrus, welcome to thesite! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    everyone here's really friendly, ive got addicted to coming here now! we're always here to listen to your probs, and to try and cheer you up! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    like JB, a lot of people here have experience with depression and self harm, and so there'll probably be someone here to help you out, no matter what your prob!

    hope you're happy here in our little group! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Great to have u on thesite. As has been said b4 there r loads of us who will have experienced some of the stuff u have, Im one of them (gone through all in your title <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">). U will find a lot of support here and make some great friends. Sorry to hear bout your work situation.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey love the nic!

    welcome to thesite.

    Sorry ur havin a shitty time rite now, thesite is a really gr8 place and u wil get loadsa support here. Are u going to a councellor to get to the root of ur problems? It cud help. Ignore the ppl @ work they sound like assholes, just b cool and do ya own thang.

    here's another friend <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, heres the best friend ull get on the whole board. KAYLS!!! alright, that was a sad attempt at humour but hey, it's early!
    anyway, you can talk about anything with us lot, and we wont think less of you, as long as you do it in a *nice* and *considerate* way which i have no doubts that you will. just had to b said.
    anyways, i'll shut up about that shit now..
    im sorry to hear about your job, like Drifter said, the people at work seem like assholes.
    i dont know about all the things that youve been going through, but my mother has panic. she's had it since she was three and nobody understood for the longest time. i still dont think they do now. and its a horrible feeling not being understood. but on thesite, there are soo many people who've gone there, and are willing to talk things through and help you.
    not to make this sound completely serious though, coz as uve probly gathered, evry1 is a bit mad too <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; there's a time for both.
    anyways, welcome to thesite, hope you stick around, and that we can help you out, even if it's just a bunch of nutters to make you smile. <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    speak to you soon..

    kayleigh
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Honey,

    I have also been thru/ am going thru the same stuff as u so if u ever wana talk you can get me on:
    MSN messenger: SnowAngel42. My email adress is the same but @hotmail.com.
    Or on Yahoo messenger: Julia007uk.
    Speakin of Yahoo messenger, why is nobody ever there!!!!???? <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Hope to hear rom u soon citrus,

    Jules
    xxxx

    "I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SexyCinderella:
    Honey,

    Or on Yahoo messenger: Julia007uk.
    Speakin of Yahoo messenger, why is nobody ever there!!!!???? <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    There were loads of us there tonite.

    Welcome Citrus, we'll be your friends <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    j9



    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What time r u lot usually on??

    "I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    {{{{{{citrus}}}}}}

    all i can say is you've got a friend. you can message me on msn talkative75@hotmail.com, or icq on 103553220.
    dunno how much help i can be but i'll try!
    take care and talk soon xxx

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SexyCinderella:
    What time r u lot usually on??


    Usually between about 8pm & 2am <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    But according to Yahoo, u are always online, so maybe, on you're yahoo, the rest of us look like we're always off line?

    j9


    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
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