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Dont go off the topic

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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It pisses me off when people go off the topic and debate about something stupid which is not relevent, its annoying and dont say that u dont agree, i realise that this post is off the topic of sex but it had to be said here, its the most popular.Hmmmmmmm...wonder why? anyway sorry if i "offended u" but it had to be said.
laterz
P.S i love u all really, apart from the blokes, i give them a BIG up!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    It pisses me off when people go off the topic and debate about something stupid which is not relevent, its annoying and dont say that u dont agree, i realise that this post is off the topic of sex but it had to be said here, its the most popular.Hmmmmmmm...wonder why? anyway sorry if i "offended u" but it had to be said.
    laterz
    B]

    Nah, i agree with you, it annoys me as well. No doubt some of the more regular posters will say something about my one icle star but I have been reading (although not registering and posting) comments on these boards for weeks so I reckon im within my rights to have a moan.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by city_boy:
    my one icle star

    hehe peewee.

    haha <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    anyway.....ur right, if u read my latest topics ull see they've gone off topic.

    oh well.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good man, although i cant wait for a fierce argument to spark up, funny, i guess?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    good man, although i cant wait for a fierce argument to spark up, funny, i guess?

    I agree, I would say the "regulars" but I guess Im a regular now.
    Instead the "mega posters" do tend to post topics with no relevance whatsoever to the topic in hand. Any reasons why????

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:

    Instead the "mega posters" do tend to post topics with no relevance whatsoever to the topic in hand. Any reasons why????


    Maybe the stars have gone to their head?


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    I agree, I would say the "regulars" but I guess Im a regular now.
    Instead the "mega posters" do tend to post topics with no relevance whatsoever to the topic in hand. Any reasons why????


    Because conversations, as I am sure you are aware, are dynamic, if something happens to change the subject, then it happens.

    I assume you are complaining because I asked Whizzykid what the problem was?

    Well I'm sorry, if I had come out of that area & gone to another & started up a new thread I might have crashed in the meantime & lost the emotion by the time I got back.

    As far as I'm concerned if a friend is in distress I will respond there & then.

    I'm sorry if this upsets your need to keep everything on order, but I am not an "ordered person"

    j9

    ps, was it ok to post this here or should I have started a new thread <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm im not even gonna say nothing cos i know what all my mummies said

    'If you cant say nothing nice then dont say nothing at all'

    Not that i stick to it but i'll just get loadsa shit so im gonna keep my gob shut.

    Just think all you newbies r going a bit over the top.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its u who always go over the top, like if u dont introduce yourself, may be they just wanna get there problem out, ever thought of that?

    im not mean, i just sound it cause i get emotional
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9j9:
    Because conversations, as I am sure you are aware, are dynamic, if something happens to change the subject, then it happens.

    I assume you are complaining because I asked Whizzykid what the problem was?

    Well I'm sorry, if I had come out of that area & gone to another & started up a new thread I might have crashed in the meantime & lost the emotion by the time I got back.

    As far as I'm concerned if a friend is in distress I will respond there & then.

    I'm sorry if this upsets your need to keep everything on order, but I am not an "ordered person"

    j9

    ps, was it ok to post this here or should I have started a new thread <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;


    How did I just know this would happen? Yeah if a friend is in "distress" then carry on but what chris is trying 2 say (or what i think he is) is that completely irrevelant matters arrise in sometimes quite serious original posts and people go of topic. I hope that sounds non-offensive, i wanna get on with you guys, and girls!

    Respect

    [This message has been edited by city_boy (edited 03-01-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We understand that but its not like people do it on purpose you know!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well just chill out then & go with the flow <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Sometimes threads go astray, it happens.

    As to the question of getting a question out, of course people want to do that. Maybe they've been lurking for weeks, or even months & don't see it as an odd question to just come straight out with, but these boards have evolved over the year & some VERY odd people have done some VERY distructive things.

    In my personal opinion one of them nearly brought the board down single handedly, so naturally I am very protective. Unfortunately for me TheSite has become an important part of my life lol.

    I like to welcome newcomers, it is sooo important to have new ideas & fresh ideas & the place would get very stale if it was the same guys all the time & never any newbies, but I worry about everyone <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I'm sorry if I come over as being overbearing etc etc, but I really am a nice, kind person who is always open to seeing both sides of the coin.

    I'm sorry as well if I upset you, but I will continue to be vigilant, maybe I'll stop myself from posting to newbies for a while, apart from saying hi.

    j9 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get some stars and posts to your name before you diss. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; and if you don't like it leave.
    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.

    [This message has been edited by whizzygirl (edited 03-01-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    get some stars and posts to your name before you diss. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; and if you don't like it leave.


    Oh.......ok then. 1 Question though...do you think having 2 more stars than me makes your comments and views superior to mine? And to j9, ok, i think this has got a bit silly now but i know u r a good person, ive been reading these boards 4 a while now and know u give good advice. and BTW, the person bringing down the boards, was it that arnesh guy? just wondering. peace to u all

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by city_boy:
    having 2 more stars than me makes your comments and views superior to mine?

    woo-hoo, make that 1 star more.


    Respect
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by city_boy:
    do you think having 2 more stars than me makes your comments and views superior to mine?

    thats what a lot of people seem to think... its not how many posts you make, its the quality of them. i mean, people like luka (just one example) dont have as many posts as some people and yet still gives really good advice and no ones telling him to stop askingquestions or saying stuff on here that isnt all light and happy. i think you have a point cityboy.
    It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    people like luka (just one example) dont have as many posts as some people and yet still gives really good advice and no ones telling him to stop askingquestions or saying stuff on here that isnt all light and happy. i think you have a point cityboy.


    That's because I keep trying to scrub those damn stars off with domestos and a brillo pad. seriously though thanks for the compliment, means a lot. I just try to post things the way I see the, i don't expect people to agree. After all it's only my opinion, and it's just a drop in the ocean


    The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want to survive here:

    Don't mention arnesh. Ever.

    You'll make people suspicious. Let it die.

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica:
    If you want to survive here:

    Don't mention arnesh. Ever.

    You'll make people suspicious. Let it die.


    I reckon Arnesh reads the site loving himself for the popularity he has got! I know its all bad but people keep talking about him long after he's gone. Forget him and move on.

    Don't live TheSite in the past <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica:
    If you want to survive here:

    Don't mention arnesh. Ever.

    You'll make people suspicious. Let it die.

    *|* Chica *|*


    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

    Oooppps, sorry chica and to everyone else. I was just wondering cos as a "lurker" as you put it i read a few of his comments and all the sane people replies to him. Just wondering.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    thats what a lot of people seem to think... its not how many posts you make, its the quality of them. i mean, people like luka (just one example) dont have as many posts as some people and yet still gives really good advice and no ones telling him to stop askingquestions or saying stuff on here that isnt all light and happy. i think you have a point cityboy.


    And that wasnt meant to offend wizzygirl in anyway, i just dont understand it. Anyway, thanx GFM, it feels much better when some-one actually agrees with what you say, which dont happen to me much.

    PS - is there anywhere on this site with the info about all the stars and different types of posters cos im liking this now!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehehee you wont believe this but me being bigheaded and everything couldnt believe it when i noticed i was a cool newbie, i thought that there was this person who i now know are the moderators, who read your posts and decided what they thought yo were and i was well chuffed to be called cool.

    Now i know i woulda been cool no matter what, but hey im cool anyway so who cares!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit:
    Hehehee you wont believe this but me being bigheaded and everything couldnt believe it when i noticed i was a cool newbie, i thought that there was this person who i now know are the moderators, who read your posts and decided what they thought yo were and i was well chuffed to be called cool.

    Now i know i woulda been cool no matter what, but hey im cool anyway so who cares!

    If they did rate you like that then you'd be stuck on Insane <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It wasn't Arnesh, he was a lightweight, it was sickmind & it was what he said offsite, in yahoo, sparked by posts in thesite & peoples reactions which caused the problems.

    He was a troll, winding people up, turning people against each other with his lies & stories.

    I wish I didn't have the stars, some people seem to think that I have become all high & mighty because of them, well that's just not true. It was fun earning them, obviously, and I really hope that there aren't any higher levels.

    I'm going to kill j9j9, maybe I can be one of the guys again <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    j9

    [This message has been edited by j9j9 (edited 05-01-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm just new around here but I do wonder what everyone is talking about...topic? what topic? only topic here seems to be... well what?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't feel that way J9, you know all us regulars love you! Anyway, the stars are a symbol of your value to TheSite, you've helped loads of people (me included) and you're just the same old J9J9 now to us as you always have been...well done on reaching the top <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chica:
    Don't feel that way J9, you know all us regulars love you! Anyway, the stars are a symbol of your value to TheSite, you've helped loads of people (me included) and you're just the same old J9J9 now to us as you always have been...well done on reaching the top <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

    Thanks chica (when you gonna get ICQ'd up?)

    j9


    MTS ^5 ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by city_boy:
    Oh.......ok then. 1 Question though...do you think having 2 more stars than me makes your comments and views superior to mine? And to j9, ok, i think this has got a bit silly now but i know u r a good person, ive been reading these boards 4 a while now and know u give good advice. and BTW, the person bringing down the boards, was it that arnesh guy? just wondering. peace to u all



    no its not that at all. i just don't think you should diss us when you've not been on here very long. i have been signed up since june (i think) and was around reading long before that, and i think that the site runs very smoothly (most of the time). anyone would think we forced you to read the posts the way you complain!!! thats what gets me - its your choice whether you come here or not and then you complain. and by the way, i would say the same to you if you had 5 stars!
    anyway i've said my piece and i think its clear what i mean (i hope so anyway!) so hey lets call a truce, yeah? *leans over to shake cityboy's hand*
    luv and peace xxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh my god! i thought we had an imposter j9 then i realised it was j9 disguised as a newbie! i'm so stupid!
    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    oh my god! i thought we had an imposter j9 then i realised it was j9 disguised as a newbie! i'm so stupid!


    Very.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by whizzygirl:
    no its not that at all. i just don't think you should diss us when you've not been on here very long. i have been signed up since june (i think) and was around reading long before that, and i think that the site runs very smoothly (most of the time). anyone would think we forced you to read the posts the way you complain!!! thats what gets me - its your choice whether you come here or not and then you complain. and by the way, i would say the same to you if you had 5 stars!
    anyway i've said my piece and i think its clear what i mean (i hope so anyway!) so hey lets call a truce, yeah? *leans over to shake cityboy's hand*
    luv and peace xxx


    Yeah, i agree wizzygirl, me is sorry. i thought all the regualars we all helpful and friendly (and still do) when i was "lurking" and as soon as i join up i make most of you pissed off. me is sorry 2 u all.

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