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I can't cope with my sister
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Please, there must be a way I can help her with Euthanasia, she's the worst bitch I know. She is the complete opposite of me in so many ways and is just out to get what she can get. She's 14 and she bunks off school and goes out being a sex-toy for 19 year old towny losers who've got no life.
I've gone past the point of caring for her life, she's already fucked it up so much, but why does she have to drag me down too?
I've gone past the point of caring for her life, she's already fucked it up so much, but why does she have to drag me down too?
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if it's bringing you down, then detach yourself from her. there is only so much you can do to help someone. eventually she will wake up and see what a mess she has got herself into. she's a good girl at heart, just following the crowd- a dangerous thing.....
What do you parents have to say about this?
Well, they're plenty dealing with their own stress at the moment, and trust me there's a lot of it. I think my sister might feel neglected because with so much going on she cant be the centre of attention so she's going out getting as much attention as she can.
No joke either.
She also steals money to go town. We wanted to put her in a boarding school but there are waiting lists and knwoing what my sister is like they probably wouldn't want her anyway.
everyone has tried, but all they can do is write 'action plans' and tell my parents they're going to get into trouble, because apparently my sister isn't responsible about herself. But my mum drives her to the front door of the school and watches her go in - what else can she do other than handcuff her to the desk.
I live in Leicester, UK
My sister is 15 and more or less went through everything that your sister has and is probably quite similar. I feel I can't do anything for my sister mosty because she doesn't get caught not going to school cus she has her 'friends' to cover up for her.
She is getting a little better though. She goes concilling about cuting herslef and is making proper (and hopefully good) friends.
Have you tried talking to her about her problems? that could help a little in the short term.
Plus if you dont use a johnny you can get diseases, aids or pregnant. All of which would suck at 14.
Thats not the worst that could happen to her tho.....
Something bad has to happen to your sister to make her realise what she's doing to herself and others. In the meantime there isn't anything you can do really, other than ignore her. She'll learn the lesson the hard way like my brother had to and then she'll more than likely settle down. I know this isn't much comfort but I thought I would add my own experience of an unruly sibling.
next year she's got a place at a boarding school in worcestershire or something which is a long way away! It's in january, I'm well chuffed!!
as someone that grew up in the social services care, i have seen quite a bit of this and if all other avenues fail (please dont hate me for what i am about to say) then your parents still have a trump card up their sleves which is your parents can make arrangements for her to go and view a secure unit accomadation which houses out of control teens. been there done that. the best thing is they have no choice but to go to school as when they in the classroom the door is locked.
if that does not work then as a absolute last resort your parents could have her accommodated with social services similar to a care order but your parents still have parental responsibility.
dont know if any of this helps but i hope you can find a resolution..
ALL THE BEST....