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embaressing question here... biting and stuff
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So I'm with this guy and he likes it all rough with biting and scratching he says. Only problem, I hate recieving that kinda stuff, so I've never given it before. And I don't know how. I don't know how to be rough or where to like bite people. And its embaressing. Any ideas for me?
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well personally, i'll scratch down his back or his arms..
and i'll dig my nails into his back, sides, hips,arms and butt
pretty much anywhere my hands go.. i dig and scratch.. except the face, penis, and balls
and i bite the shoulders, neck, collar bone area...
my girl was a bit shy in the beginning, i told her the exact same thing. its a lot more fun now. she's a lot more arrogant in bed now while trying to make me feel good at the same time.
spanner is also right though, talk to him, get comfortable etc first, that is really really important.
Pah.
who knows maybe its a throwback of a huntnig reflex
You wild woman you:D
Yes.. This is what my Girlfriend and me do,
Scratching on the back is really effective, and to me.. really nice and easy to hide, biting on the neck isn't so easy to hide, but still.. Very nice,
These are the most common ones people use, and imo the most effective.. Ask him where his weak spot is, eg mine is my neck.
Like spanner said, if you don't want to do it, don't do it to please him, you shouldn't have to