i wish i was still a virgin...

BillieTheBot

does anyone else on here REALLY regret losing their virginity? i know i totally do. i really wish i had saved it for someone that i loved and was in a relationship with. and also that i'd had lost it in a bed. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">. just wondered about other people opinions on this.

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I go through fazes where i wish i hadn't then i had etc.... but i also get that oh god i wish i was more experienced bit coz i feel like a virgin with a new bloke. (i'm sayign where you think you'd have sex with him but don't ) I think i get scared he'll turn to my face and say you're crap!!! anyone esle feel that or is it me?????????

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I sort of regret it.
I never really enjoyed sex with my now-ex as I just wasn`t comfortable with her and couldn`t relax, I don`t relax easily at the best of times so not gonna happen between the sheets.
I wish I hadn`t (because as I said it was no fun whatsoever) and had waited until I could do it with someone I was comfortable with and could relax with and maybe actually enjoy it.

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I do kinda regret losing my virginity when I did. I do wish it would have been with someone who cared about me, but I can't change that now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

lol No Kat it's not just you I used to feel like that alot to, that feeling really sucks

TTFN

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Yes. It was lovely and perfect at the time, but it happened during a holiday romance, and I haven't seen the guy since. We were together for 2 weeks and had sex on my last night there.

The reason I regret it is that I'd just started going out with someone before I went on holiday. It was hardly a relationship then cos we'd been together like, a week, but we're still together now. I really love him and can't believe I did something like that. I told him I'd had a holiday romance and he got really upset and told me not to tell him anything else, which means I just have to deal with it on my own. It happened months ago, but I still can't get rid of this guilty feeling inside me.

Oh well, I've rambled on about my woes and sorrows for far too long now. Anyway the answer is yes, I regret losing my virginity, but I also feel like it was perfect, and can't help wondering how much I would have regretted it if I HADN'T slept with him.

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Magenta

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Yes. It was lovely and perfect at the time, but it happened during a holiday romance, and I haven't seen the guy since. We were together for 2 weeks and had sex on my last night there.

The reason I regret it is that I'd just started going out with someone before I went on holiday. It was hardly a relationship then cos we'd been together like, a week, but we're still together now. I really love him and can't believe I did something like that. I told him I'd had a holiday romance and he got really upset and told me not to tell him anything else, which means I just have to deal with it on my own. It happened months ago, but I still can't get rid of this guilty feeling inside me.

Oh well, I've rambled on about my woes and sorrows for far too long now. Anyway the answer is yes, I regret losing my virginity, but I also feel like it was perfect, and can't help wondering how much I would have regretted it if I HADN'T slept with him.

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Magenta

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hey, i know exaclty what you mean.

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Former Member

Hey

Im still a virgin, but i did everything else with the last guy i was with, and cant decide if i regret it or not!

At the time i didn't regret it, because i did love him and all, but because we've broken up now, i kinda wish i hadn't- does that make sence?


Still, no point regretting it, we cant change the past can we? Ill definately take things slower in future though! (even though i was with him 8 months)

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Yeah, do regret losing it when I did, particularly as it was a revenge fuck. HAd been going out with a girl for 1 1/2 yrs when she dropped me for another girl, so I ended up getting drunk with an ex-boss who was 27 (I was 16). Basically it was a 'i can get what you can't give me' shag, but definitely not fulfilling in any way. (Apart from the literal one).

But did sleep w/ my girlfriend (obviously) so if you count that as losing my virginity then I don't regret any of it. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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my grandmother still had her virginity at 80...so count yourself lucky

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Well how was your mum/dad born then stupid!!!!

I don't regret losing my virginity.

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Originally posted by PepticRancidArseboil:
my grandmother still had her virginity at 80...so count yourself lucky

how does that make sense?


or am i being a dumb blonde...

anyways im 16 and still a virgin (yey) and cant wait 2 lose it 2 someone that i care about and trust. ive done everything else tho, and regret a lot of it even tho it was fun.

Former Member

i would constantly tell myself that i am going to lose my virginity with someone that i love, but when it came to it, i never.

I had only been with the lad for about 2 weeks and he was the 1st serious boyfriend that i had had. I felt like he wanted sex from me, but he was kinda shy (but not, in a way lol). I felt like i was getting pressure from his friends and my friends.

But when the time came, it was in my house and in my bed (so thats quite a good thing), but i was pissed and stoned. Sometimes i think that i regret it and then other times i dont and i know that that was the boy i wanted to do it with