Sex toys

Former Member

hi all :wave:

here's a query:

those of you who are in relationships; do you use sex toys, (vibrators, etc) and if so, how did you... start off using them?

did you find trying them out a little intimidating to begin with?

just asking, as I think i'd feel that I'd thrown my gf and I in at the deep end if I brought out something like the rampent rabbit as the first...

any suggestions?

Former Member

Well i've had a vib used on me once, i felt ok about it, but i'd rather my bf used his thing instead... more realistic really....

i dont think i'd do it with a new bf... but i'd be open to more sex toys but just havent had the expericence of it all yet

me day will come

Former Member

hey
yeah, me+my b.f do sometimes use vibrators. we bought 2 form anne summers, bu tnot the rampant rabbit, bcos it looked very scary!
we dont often use them, but started off using them as a suggestion off me to liven things up abit! id prefere his bits anyday :yes:
SBG

Former Member

I think they are a great way to spice up a relationship!

Rampant Rabbits are amazing! :yes:

Former Member

thanks for your replies everyone it's most appreciated...


Naomi_UK... if you don't mind me asking, was that the first of that kinda thing you started out using...?

Former Member

Yes it was... my sister bought me one so I couldnt exactly say no. Glad I didnt too!

Former Member

Yes, have used them in relationships. Usually small vibrators, suitable for clit stimulation, either to tease with, or to use during sex. Lots of fun. :thumb:

Former Member

All I have is a small vibrator, only to be used on your clit.
I use it sometimes alone and occasionally with my boyfriend.
Never felt intimidated by it, but then again it was all my idea
Theirs lots of other sex toys that interest me and that I would try out in a second, they just tend to be a little expensive so i haven't, as of yet

Yeah the rampant rabbit might 'surprise' your girlfriend a little, just start out buying her a small 'outside' use vibrator at first and see what she thinks

Former Member

I have two vibs but my bf dnt like me using them when he's there because he says it feels like i'm saying that he's not good enough.
But some times I just want that lil bit more when he's feeling lazy ya know.

Former Member

Me and my girlfriend havent used any yet, but we'd like to. I dont understand how people can be "intimidated" by them....i mean, its all for fun right? so just enjoy it, play with them, have fun. hehe

Peace

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Originally posted by AlmightyBob
I dont understand how people can be "intimidated" by them....i mean, its all for fun right?
Peace

I think the people that are intimidated by them are probably the people who aren't totally comfortable with their sexuality and/or partner.

Former Member

You might want to introduce something a little more 'timid' than the rampant rabbit. Or at least mention it to her first to see what she thinks.

Former Member

Originally posted by princessamy
I think the people that are intimidated by them are probably the people who aren't totally comfortable with their sexuality and/or partner.

i guess...makes another fair point tho: dont go playin with battery operated devices til your totally comfortable with your partner and yourself

Peace