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i'll probably answer my own question in this,but i just wanted other people's advice:
back in may Chris and I had a bit of a break. I was devestated and we eventually got back together and both swore we'd never be apart again. However,i found out that during our break he'd got off with my best friend. They both swore they'd been blind drunk and i believe them because i've heard them slagging each other off numerous times,before and after. so they're both forgiven and its forgotten.
i stopped talking to my friend a few months back because she was being irrational about my spending time with chris and not her,even though i was always with her. but on tuesday she called and asked to meet me,after two months of not talking to me,shouting abuse at me and slagging me off like nothing else. she kept saying that she had to talk to me,it was important. so we arranged to meet because i was out anyway. but then she cancelled and refused to tell me what the problem was or what it was she had wanted to tell me.
i told chris last night and he went scatty,saying that i mustn't ever talk to her ever again, shes a bad person etc etc.
im assuming she knows something about him or she wants to tell me what happened in may. any further thoughts or what i should do?
cheers mucho xxx
back in may Chris and I had a bit of a break. I was devestated and we eventually got back together and both swore we'd never be apart again. However,i found out that during our break he'd got off with my best friend. They both swore they'd been blind drunk and i believe them because i've heard them slagging each other off numerous times,before and after. so they're both forgiven and its forgotten.
i stopped talking to my friend a few months back because she was being irrational about my spending time with chris and not her,even though i was always with her. but on tuesday she called and asked to meet me,after two months of not talking to me,shouting abuse at me and slagging me off like nothing else. she kept saying that she had to talk to me,it was important. so we arranged to meet because i was out anyway. but then she cancelled and refused to tell me what the problem was or what it was she had wanted to tell me.
i told chris last night and he went scatty,saying that i mustn't ever talk to her ever again, shes a bad person etc etc.
im assuming she knows something about him or she wants to tell me what happened in may. any further thoughts or what i should do?
cheers mucho xxx
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* On a lighter note, if you and Chris split up, won't you have to change your username?
i'd love to call vicky but she wouldn't tell me.lol,also,im under strict instructions from chris not to call her or talk to her,if she calls,don't answer.methinks i'll give him an ultimatum: tell me whats going on or i'll ask vicky.
Who the hell does he think he is, telling you who you can and cant talk to?
my boyfriend :rolleyes:
BUT,as much as it drives me insane,we've been fighting a lot recently,and his return to form last night sorta proves that we're ok (touch wood). is that truly pathetic?
It shouldnt be that blind.
dont bother ringing her, go straight round. and fuck the boyf's attitude, he's the one in the wrong and you're the one who's going to get hurt.
Having said that I really know nothing about this Chris bloke, so dont take my advice.
of course i have. but i still left him.
everyone deserves better than that.
i'd personally find out what this girl has to say.
however,i asked him about the vicky thing and he was all "wtf katie?! i dont want her near us,we've nearly split up countless times over her (v true) and you want to believe that she's accusing me of something?" but i wasn't accusing him of anything,i was just wondering out loud whats going on. sorted it out though,w00p.
By 'sorted it out' do you mean 'I backed down completely'?
cheers anyway though
*ahem* I agree with the following:
Why did your mate want to speak to you urgently all of a sudden.
I think it sounds like something has gone on with them more recently than you think.
I hope im wrong though for your sake.
Dont let him make you feel bad for not trusting him about it though, only trust someone who hasnt betrayed your trust before.
That was the same with me and Jas, but look what happened! :rolleyes:
that 95% means nothing if 5% of the time he treats you like shit.
my boyfriend respects me 100% of the time. that doesn't mean that we always see eye to eye, cause we're both only human. but he has never, and i hope would never treat me as badly as you have been treated. and it might only be 5% of the time, but it's still too much.
you deserve better. everyone does.