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sex for first time with my new bf

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Hiya any tips

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm :chin: , spose the only advice i can really give you is to do lots of different things. you'll then find lots of things that he loves. judge by his reactions what he enjoys and what he loves and what he doesnt like. Its always fun learning which buttons to press, he he :naughty:
    Sorry, but that's alls i can think of tho!
    SBG
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just do what feels right and maybe buy some massage oil and give your man a good rub down first
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree, and deepthroating is so 1980's, hun. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blackraven
    I agree, and deepthroating is so 1980's, hun. ;)
    :yes:
    using r hand on his shaft aand stimulating hs head and the ridge on the underside with ur tong and lips and even humming is sooo much better :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    :yes:
    using r hand on his shaft aand stimulating hs head and the ridge on the underside with ur tong and lips and even humming is sooo much better :thumb:

    god im picturing you doing that now, and cant cause youre oh so innocent :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When you're on top, reach behind you and massage the area between his anus and testicles, and use your kegels like no tomorrow. ;D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    When you're on top, reach behind you and massage the area between his anus and testicles, and use your kegels like no tomorrow. ;D
    :yes: My boyfriend LOVES this
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    :yes: My boyfriend LOVES this

    Most men do. If you get it right you can stimulate the prostate...:yum:

    Though for a general rule I agree with J.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    :yes: My boyfriend LOVES this

    Mine dont, he wont let me anywhere near it. He says its to close to his arse for comfort. He probably thinks I'm gonna use the whoops aproach for stimulating his g-spot.:rolleyes: I'm not that mean.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Check out our sex section for loads of articles to give you some more ideas. And, with my mod hat on, I obviously have to tell you that using a condom and making sure you are ready and comfortable to take this step are vitally important.
    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zella
    Mine dont, he wont let me anywhere near it. He says its to close to his arse for comfort. He probably thinks I'm gonna use the whoops aproach for stimulating his g-spot.:rolleyes: I'm not that mean.
    He never used to, must of been a "i'm not gay thing" but now he's pretty cool about it, i just started to play with his balls one day and got a little closer every minute or so... he seemed to enjoy it...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Most men do. If you get it right you can stimulate the prostate...
    Where is that? in his arse?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I will never ever understand the "i'm not gay" argument. Especially as most blokes would want to have anal sex with their gf :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    Where is that? in his arse?

    The best way of stimulating it is to put a finger inside his arse, but if you press dopwn on the perineum you can stimulate it too. Makes for very powerful orgasms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    The best way of stimulating it is to put a finger inside his arse, but if you press dopwn on the perineum you can stimulate it too. Makes for very powerful orgasms.

    Haha, Road Trip.

    "OMG, Stop! Ok, keep doing it!"

    Heh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know it doesnt make sense, but it must a boytrous thing and that all men hate gayness.... well i know it was like that when i was about 14-15...

    was you ever like that? or are you cool with girls touching you there? - (if she does sorry i just asking incase you thought i was assuming):D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    but if you press down on the perineum

    What? where? How?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    was you ever like that? or are you cool with girls touching you there?

    When I was, like, 14 I couldn't understand why people would want to play with bottoms, but with matuirity comes knowledge.

    The only way to have good sex is to be uninhibited.

    ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    :yes: My boyfriend LOVES this

    Too much information, Aimz! :yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    Too much information, Aimz! :yuck:

    Why is it exactly?

    You could dress up in some really nice underwear that should get him going to start off with, then i guess it is about trial and error you are just going to have to see what he likes, massages and blow jobs never seem to fail, oh and don't forget to play with his balls while sucking/tossing him off :thumb:
    It's all about having fun, don't do anything you are not comfortable with.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i know what you mean beans.... my boyf is a very sensitive guy which makes me love him more as it dont need that much effort of he'll faint with sensitivity
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by beans
    You could dress up in some really nice underwear that should get him going to start off with, then I guess it is about trial and error you are just going to have to see what he likes, massages and blow jobs never seem to fail, oh and don't forget to play with his balls while sucking/tossing him off. It's all about having fun, don't do anything you are not comfortable with.

    As a man, I can tell you that if any woman follows the above routine with me, it would be a huge turn on. I think you've got the balance right. Personally, I've never slept with anyone, so I wouldn't know much more about this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: sex for first time with my new bf
    Originally posted by xBunnyGal16x
    Hiya!
    I have a new boyfriend and I really really like him and I am going to sleep with him this weekend and I want to make the sex really,really good so I need tips off you more experienced people! (im not a virgin I just dont want to mess it up) I can deepthroat and things but I need more tips!
    thanx!
    alanna x
    I'm kind of with J on this one.

    If you are worried about "messing it up" then maybe you are not at the right stage of your relationship with him to be physically intimate- emotional intimacy should come first imo.

    As for what to do maybe you could ask the guy in question. He'll know what he'd like a lot better than random people you've met on an internet forum.

    Just an idea...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1983 what do you mean by kegels??
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