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personal slaves?
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well, to put it bluntly.....
a friend has desided to become my personal slave, and i kinda agreed to it, but what does it actually fully entail....
please don't ask the hows wheres and whys, cos i don't know!
a friend has desided to become my personal slave, and i kinda agreed to it, but what does it actually fully entail....
please don't ask the hows wheres and whys, cos i don't know!
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Not helpful, I know. But it's good if you want to cop out of the washing up:p
As it's in this forum, I assume your friend will get a sexual kick out of being dominated. Being told what to do. And maybe being teased until he explodes (assuming you let him).
It doesn't sound like he's really told you exactly what makes him tick. For example, does he just like to be totally submissive to being given pleasure, or will he only get pleasure when you're insulting, degrading, him and mabye physically abusing him. And if so, what words, fantasies, types of injuries, does he like? Sounds like he's got to be a bit more open and tell you exactly what he likes.
I mean, what if he gets his kicks by being kicked, slapped in the face, spat on, made to perform oral on you, lick your toes, have his testicles trodden on, and finally tossed off with a cheese grater while sucking on one of your used tampons. :eek:
Hey, it could be something like that! You don't know yet. You've got to ask him why he wants to be your slave, and what he expects, and what gets him off. Also, is it purely sexual? Is it only restricted to the bedroom? Or does he want to be a total slave and do anything for you? Even if it means cleaning your toilet seat with his tongue?
With any form of BDSM communication is the key. Once you've got that out of the way, then it's up to you to carry it out.
Also, I assume the idea appeals to you? And that you have some things you'd like to do to a slave. Would you like someone to just be a slave about the house, or to just have sex with? There are so many levels to it, and so many interpretations of it. It could turn out that you both like a bit of BDSM, but like different things, and could ultimately be incompatible. You never know - at least not until you at least talk about it. You've got to do that first. ....And then let us know the outcome.
oh well. i will get my slave in the end.....
trust you......you're just one huge flirt arn't you?
What exactly is your interpretation of a slave then?
no, i knew he was high when i was talking to him, but i thought he would remember the convo...
slave= someone who you can get to do your dirty work and have some fun with now and then ie give them pain.......
4 people now off this site have offered to be my personal slave now......madness.....great but still mad. and none of them near me. oh the horrors of isolation!
well perhaps to your slavedom, maybe you get the right to the occasional slaves rebellion
http://www.stockroom.com/g/a260plus.jpg
i was hoping that link was going to be something else, like the object we talked about earlier.....i've never seen one in that colour you know.......
I shall offer to be your personal dom then:p
fuck off
i have to admit that i am a total control freak....
and what would your misses say about that??
*is dubious*
She need never know;)
There is actually a lifestyle, I'm sure of it that a person can live being subservient. I don't think it's based around sexual activity either, but more the person lives with you and looks after you, cooks, cleans... all that crap.
Having thought about it for a few minutes, I've changed my mind.
number 5
anyother men want to add their name to the list?