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what would you do...
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If you was in a situation.. like romeo and julliet... you wanted to be with someone so badly but others didn't want you to be with them.. .what would you do?
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and lie to the others.
True love is a many splenored thing, yo.
You'd lie through your back teeth and tell them to fuck off it's your life. Your mistakes, your experience to profit from. Not theirs, not anyones. YOURS. If they moan and shit about you bringing emotional crap with you back home, you tell them you won't cry or ask ANYONE for help. It's your fucking problemo.
Hell yeah for inconvenient lurve. CAN I GET A HELL YEAH!11
Wouldnt that depend on the circumstances ?
I'm talking from past experience. I've never dated a complete druggie/pimp/alchie in any case to make my family want to disown me. However I have dated guys who've fucked me about and my parent's were a bit put off by it all. But they know it's MY life, and MY decisions to make. Up to me to learn. Same for wee Graeme here.
Ah but do we know the circumstances of what hes talking about ?
What if hes talking abou himself and lets assume he wants an older woman ? like much older or maybe he wants someone who is the town bike with 6 kids ?
He'll be wittering about Druscilla, some bit of internet totty who "loves" him dearly but her mummy won't let her associate with such types as wee Graeme here.
She's a self-harming anorexic druggie, but that's a given, non?
internet tottie:rolleyes: she's 5min up the road from me..
and yes.. what happened wiith me and my ex girlfriend did bring this on, but im curious what others would do in this situation so i might use them for examples, and no kermit she isn't a druggie, yes shes anorexic so thats a problem. you got a problem with someone being anorexic... God.. im asking for advice and you tear it apart, i'm after an example..
Beckyboo, the girl is my age,:p
Be with them.
Which is what I did until it all went horribly wrong but meh. Do whats right for you at the time! No one can make decisions for you, it's your life after all.
thats all good then
Why do people not want you to be together ?
If its just because they dont like her ?if it is then of course see her, its your life and make your own mistakes. If people keep saying "dont go out with her" then thats the wrong way to split you up because you will do the exact opposite.
her parents don't like me...
so? don't tell them, and stop being a wanker so as they don't like you.
well what've you done to make them not like you?
...love love!
Nothing, i spoke to her mum for 30seconds once..
So ok her Mother dont like you, its up to you to make sure you give her nothing to complain about.
Try to be nice (even if you think shes being a cow), DO NOT keep her Daughter out late cos thats a dead cert that will annoy her. Also let her mother know where yous are going to if you go out.....just anything that will let her mam see a better side of you.
Just try to get to know the mother, get her on side and your laughing.
logically, there'd be a reason why she didn't like you.
you must've made a hell of an impression during those 30 seconds.
um, no
No. I'm bulimic.
I was just being sneering.
See her on the sly, like any other self-respecting teenager would.
Well things fell through, her parents forbid her to even talk to me