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Talking Behind Your Back
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People talking behind your back is one thing we all do it about someone or another but don't it piss you off when they do it within ear shot of you.
If you're going to talk about someone shouldn't they at least have the decency to make sure they can't be overheard by the person they're talking about?
Was in the sitting room and could hear my sister bragging abut how clever she is, etc for having the bigger bedroom and a whole bunch of other crap to my aunt. Wonder how clever she'd feel if I told my aunt how my own sister waited until I went to Uni and started selling off my books, etc to her school friends and pocketing the money.
If you're going to talk about someone shouldn't they at least have the decency to make sure they can't be overheard by the person they're talking about?
Was in the sitting room and could hear my sister bragging abut how clever she is, etc for having the bigger bedroom and a whole bunch of other crap to my aunt. Wonder how clever she'd feel if I told my aunt how my own sister waited until I went to Uni and started selling off my books, etc to her school friends and pocketing the money.
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Do you mean Turn you Down or Put you Down cos they're very different things
I don't care what people say behind my back, as I am quite aware of my many faults anyway and they still love me! I would prefer them to say it to my face though, or wait until I'm out of earshot!
im like that too.. i want people to come straight up to my face and tell me if they have beef with me.. and if i do have a problem with someone.. i do talk about it with other people behind their backs.. but i also do go up to that person directly and make a confrontation...