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Ways to tell if a lesbian is in a committed relationship without asking?
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I was just wondering if there are any ways to tell if a lesbian is in a committed relationship without asking her? Do lesbians wear like rings on their hands? If so, is there a certain finger that they wear them on so that others know they have a significant other or are in a committed relationship?
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And to answer the question i don't know, you could just casually drop it into conversation or something though?
And, yes, I did mean like an engagement ring.
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That's how they are round here.
What the shit are you chatting?
You can't always tell that straight people are in relationships!
Maybe if you see two dykes walking on the pavement holding hands, you'd realise they're probably lovers!! :rolleyes: :cool:
I wanna shoot you. Ohhh yes.
I did understand the question though as a friend of mine who got engaged to their other half started wearing silver bands on their wedding finger but on their right hand instead of left. They said it was pretty common practice to wear it this way. *shrugs* but maybe that was just their way of seeing it as concrete.
I think she was replying to kaptin pikarrrd....
LMAO! Sorry, as Icey says, it was for that kaptain pikaard dude. He's always disrespectful to anything, really.
then you could take it further
Heh, respect is earned!
YUp, seemingly the sad type who gets kicks out of winding people up on web forums because it's safer to shoot their mouth off online and not get a smack than it is in the real world.
Oh really??
hope everything works out for you
I guess in retrospect I can see why people believing themself to be swinging whatever way can be scary... But now... Well I don't understand why people feel there have to be certain groupings... Pigeonholes. One thing I hate with a passion is when people come up to me and say "so what are you? Gay, bi or straight?" because at the end of the day, why is a label to do with who you like such an essential part of who you are?
Obviously don't jump to too many conclusions about her own sexuality yet (unless she sports Doc Martins, no bra and a crew cut) because not everybody likes to scream it from the rooftops and she may just be straight anyway.
May I ask how old you are? Ok ok... I ain't gonna give the whole "fancying female friends is a part of growing up" shite because it's patronising. Just do what feels right and if it's meant to be then it's meant to be.