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My dad's gay
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Okay, so, he isn't literally gay... but you get the point.
Anyway, the post is about sexuality, my sexuality...not my dads.
Right, it's Saturday... I'm in the livin' room watchin' the OC....The one where the boy sees his dad kissing another man, then runs away in shock.
So, as they kiss... which lasts a while... my dad walks in... 'n he's all "Yeah! That's what he gets! HE SHOULD have TOLD his FAMILY he was GAY."
Which left me like WTF! ...I was just wondering you guys think he might know I'm bisexual?
'Cause it really isn't like him to comment on something like that... or even talk to me at all.
Anyway, the post is about sexuality, my sexuality...not my dads.
Right, it's Saturday... I'm in the livin' room watchin' the OC....The one where the boy sees his dad kissing another man, then runs away in shock.
So, as they kiss... which lasts a while... my dad walks in... 'n he's all "Yeah! That's what he gets! HE SHOULD have TOLD his FAMILY he was GAY."
Which left me like WTF! ...I was just wondering you guys think he might know I'm bisexual?
'Cause it really isn't like him to comment on something like that... or even talk to me at all.
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Like my dad always teases my brother about his sexuality who is bi - Though my dad doesn't know that. And would ask him questions like; if someone give ya million quid to sleep with a guy, would ya? And me bro would think about it for a second and me dad would start shouting, calling him a poof and all - Though only messing.
Possibly you getting paranoid, would ya not think?!
Families can be like that; as we can't always see Eye-to-Eye. For all you know as the years go by, you may get along better with your dad. Just going through a phase now probably. I mean, I love my dad now to bits; though a few years ago; I found, I could never get close to him coz he was always a distaned man. Now he has no choice but to put up with me...
Would you ever consider telling your dad about your sexuality? I mean what would happen, if you started going out with a lad?!
Even if he does know, you're not obliged to take his hints and tell him. It's none of anyone's business except yours!
In think you're probably just being over sensitive about it so i shouldn't worry, whenever we try to hide something or keep a secret we always do get paranoid.
p.s who was kissing who on the oc? I keep missing it because it's on when i'm at work
Either way though, don't worry 'bout it. Let him wonder...
Hey, thanks for that...it kinda sounds like the relationship I have with my dad.
But, maybe y'all are right. I guess I'm prolly just over reacting. Or, it could just be... I don't bring any girls home... ever. And, I never will... ever. Well, not as long as he stays here. I do, however, have alotta friends stay over
Didn't you let slip at your gran's b'day party?
ETA: I just realised this was an old thread. Sorry.