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Spanking

Ive always been the type of girl who likes a bit of a spank, but recently I've wanted it harder than normal. I've got my bf to slap my arse as hard as he can but its still not as hard as I'd like it to be. I'm thinking about getting a cain or a riding crop from annsummers or somewhere like that. But hiding it from the parentals would be harder than hiding my vibs.

Just wondering really what you think about spanking and things. Or what else I could do to make things better. Ive tried using a ruler but it just snapped first hit.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get blokey to use his belt, to see if you like the extra pain.

    Easier to hide, too:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One problem there. His belt isnt leather and it has a evil looking metal bit on the end. I'll hunt around and see if i can find a belt with out the metal bit on it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol: I just mention the belt thing to my bf, but had to be carful how i worded it cos his mum was in the room and he got all confused and said "I'm not using my belt as a cock ring!" :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hint to fellas - if you want a cheap ass cock ring use a girls go go and stick it on your cock ;)

    zella, how about using a slipper or shoe :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a girls what?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i call it a gogo the elastic thing girls use to tie back there hair.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and the fellas were talking about it as a joke the other night if you could use it as a cock ring but i dont think it'd work though. could always try and see.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He holds the end of the belt with the buckle on it, foobar:p

    It's always worked well for me *shrug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i was thinking that too but what happens if the belt has a metal tip, i have a belt with a bukle on one side and a metal tip on the other end. now that would hurt.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I forgot about the metal-tipped ones.

    Get him to get a cheap leather one from the market. It's a damn sight cheaper than paying Ann Summers' over-inflated prices for a bit of plastic that fucking breaks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its a hair band. Ive never heard it called a gogo before.

    And yea, his belt is matal tiped so well.....ouch. I know I like pain an all but thats just a little to much for my lil bottom.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zella
    I know I like pain an all but thats just a little to much for my lil bottom.

    Poor bottom.

    A belt or slippers are good ideas, generally, though. There's no need to buy sex toys always, everyday things work just as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Poor bottom.

    A belt or slippers are good ideas, generally, though. There's no need to buy sex toys always, everyday things work just as well.

    its true though, i rather have the dosh then pay some fat cats at ann summers selling a tub of lube for a couple of quid when you have washing up liquid lying around the house.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Poor bottom.

    A belt or slippers are good ideas, generally, though. There's no need to buy sex toys always, everyday things work just as well.

    Ye anything around the house can be used as sex toys,
    From hoses to cucumbers to ties to a smarties tube with wasps :p

    U could try a steal ruler or heavy wooden one,
    But the cane and that is a better effect....
    Belts can work but do leave marks at times.
    Slippers not really?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by David Grohl
    selling a tub of lube for a couple of quid when you have washing up liquid lying around the house.

    burning lube of bubbly doom :lol:

    And yea, Dr Lurve I do kinda want the cain for the effect. To be bent over a desk and getting a good caining is a real fantacy of mine atm. I dont think a slipper would forfill it some how.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by David Grohl
    its true though, i rather have the dosh then pay some fat cats at ann summers selling a tub of lube for a couple of quid when you have washing up liquid lying around the house.

    :lol:

    Washing up liquid isn't safe to use with condoms, children.

    KY jelly costs about £2 for a huge fuck-off tube, whereas Ann Summers' lube costs about £5 for a tiny jar.

    And all this goes into funding Birmingham City football club.

    I hate Ann Summers with a passion. Their stuff is shit, too, and just so damn tame.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zella
    To be bent over a desk and getting a good caining is a real fantacy of mine atm. I dont think a slipper would forfill it some how.

    A heavy-duty wooden ruler would be more authentic, though.

    Schoolgirl sub Zella:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i'll be taking a trip down to my local art shop tomorrow:thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    while you are down there pick up some tape for some bondage sessions lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    duct/gaffer tape is the best
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Naa my handcuffs and silk skalves work wonders for us
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    A heavy-duty wooden ruler would be more authentic, though.

    EXACTLY what I was gonna say! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    NOOOOOO


    A SPATULA ;);)


    oooh **imagines zella moaning like little kinky skoolgirl **
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    spanking

    luvvin it :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wet tea-towell
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Round one: Ok, so we tried the belt thing last night. He didnt do it hard enough on me so I bent him over to show him how it should be done and missed his bum and he had a hefty great belt mark on the side of his back. There was screaming, lots of and not of the good kind. Wasnt pretty:no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol: quality :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zella
    Round one: Ok, so we tried the belt thing last night. He didnt do it hard enough on me so I bent him over to show him how it should be done and missed his bum and he had a hefty great belt mark on the side of his back. There was screaming, lots of and not of the good kind. Wasnt pretty:no:

    :lol:

    .....sorry shouldnt laugh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How on earth did you miss his arse?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he has a very small arse and it hit about 3 inches above it.:blush:
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