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meeting new people

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Does anyone know a good place to meet ppl? I joined a basketball team a few months back but i usually end up standin by myself at the side because i don't know what to say to ppl coz they have all bin mates for yrs and i don't fit in.

This will sound pathetic but once i got really drunk b4 i went so that i would be more confident. Needless to say it didn't work because i didn't have any co-ordination! Lol @ how thick i am! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

Also they get really mad @ me wen i stuf up because im not very good and and they are, and take it quite seriously.

I really love the game but it's gettin to the point where i have to force myself to go, and when i get there i really don't want to be there, and i mean its just a hobby, and it shud b fun but it's not.

Anyway, i feel like i don't fit in anywhere <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; and i want to find someone to be friends with, someone who is like me.

Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Be nonchalent. Don't try too hard to "fit in" 'cos this sometimes puts people off. Be confident, don't take criticism seriously. People can only like/love you only as much as you like/love yourself.( I hope that makes senses! A bit deep though)

    If you can be happy and confident this will attract people to you, (people are magnetised by confident and happy personalities - just think of your friends and the people you want to be friends with - what are their personalities like?) the alternative is to be unhappy and run around trying to get people to like you.

    It's not pathetic, everyone at some stage feels like that, i'm sure.

    Good luck and keep smiling.
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