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hi i'm back

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
yep i'm back lets see if we can get on with out all the crap that happened last time.

i mentioned before i left that i had some stuff to sort out

what happened was about 3 days before christmas my m8 and his fiancee broke up. the day after this another one of my m8's told her that i fancied her.

we then proceeded to have a very long discussion about various things but it boiled down to the fact that it wasn't that she didn't fancy me (because she actually did quite fancy me) it was just too soon after splitting up with my m8, which i understood because i hadn't even planned on saying anything until late jan, early feb anyway.

She was very careful not to rule out anything happeneing in the future. Anyway 1 month on things are starting to settle down for her - she's found her own place which she's moving into in about a weeks time. And today in about 5 hours time i'm going to show some guts for the first time in 5 years and ask her out properly

wish me luck guys.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good luck!

    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nice to see you back MaLkAv.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good for you man. If we never act on our feelings, how will we ever be happy! (if anyone knows me and is reading this, I am perfectly aware that, this is a hypocritical statement) But best of luck to you man. hope all goes well.

    DK

    I never said I loved you...
    However I will fuck you...
    until someone better comes along!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Welcome back Malkav, good to see you. Good luck with the young lady hope the next post you make is one of great success.

    Take it easy
    Luk

    The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm massively torn between being nice and nasty. I guess it'll be a wary "welcome back, but..."

    just i need to think of a but.

    good luck with the girl newa. is she a goth as well???

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Welcome back and how did you get on? Good news I hope <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    hiya malkav, welcome back! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    i hope it all goes well for you with that girl, i think its best to leave some time after a relationship breaks up. i hope that shes had time to get over him, a friend of mine wasnt over her boyfriend after about 5 weeks and even though she started a new relationship, she ended up going back to the evil ex <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; hope that doesnt happen to you!!

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Welcome back Malkav

    j9

    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My luck strikes again - she appears to have dissapeared off the face of the planet. I've tried to call her and her mobiles switched off and she hasn't been home since tuesday

    i think the world is trying to tell me something - everytime i find a girl that i've got a chance with something always happens
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MaLkAv:
    My luck strikes again - she appears to have dissapeared off the face of the planet. I've tried to call her and her mobiles switched off and she hasn't been home since tuesday

    i think the world is trying to tell me something - everytime i find a girl that i've got a chance with something always happens

    Lol...she probably found out you were a fraud <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;



    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    Lol...she probably found out you were a fraud <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    fraud??? dont u mean freak... 17th Century Pirate more like, rofl...

    The Goth is back

    I love it:P

    Welcome back Malkav..


    Hahaha...Im all happy n yes everything is gonna happen again.. wher'd we leave off.. just a sec will go n check
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so n e way.... y did u come back???

    guess cant really expect u to have any sense..

    still dressing like a pirate??

    Lol.. dont call it lucky she dissapeared off the face of the planet tho.. Call it her gettin sense... N oh yeah with this new 1 if u like her leave her... please for the girls sake.. unless she's goth... then go for it... n live in a room n never come out
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Geez I cant get enuff sorry keep thinkin Im gonna stop.. but Im not <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I'm so happy....

    Coulda been happier.. thought u mighta walked the plank n got eaten by sharks... buit hey Sharks got taste 2.

    OO Ar me hearties.. Ur such a f00l
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ya beat me to it,

    Im just stating my opinion here but having a long term relationship with a goth is not what girls want.

    maybe good dancing company for the nite in the pirate costume but when they find out u really r a pirate they kinda walk off the plank.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MaLkAv:
    My luck strikes again - she appears to have dissapeared off the face of the planet. I've tried to call her and her mobiles switched off and she hasn't been home since tuesday

    i think the world is trying to tell me something - everytime i find a girl that i've got a chance with something always happens


    ROFL... I'm not even gonna say it... u know y
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    YES I gotta.. it's cos ur a goth...

    DIRTY GOTHIC PLEBIAN... (new phrase for goths btw)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so n e way just cooked dinner but back now

    So the pirate thing???

    U a long John Sliver Man or more of a blackbeard man..

    U wear an eyepatrch?? which eye...

    Oh n do u have a trusty parrot that sits on ur shoulder??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just wondered.. as ur a goth n a pirate..

    U ever thought about chopping ur leg off?? or have u..

    then u could b Peg Leg...

    Do ur influences come from Captian Pugwash??

    cos I kinda liked that program 2
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rofl.. u'd think he mighta scraped together enuff brains to come back under a different name wouldnt ya...

    But Dressing Like a pirate... being a goth.. well guess we cant expect sense but just givin u ideas...

    Fact forgwet I said that.. cos I could still smell ya....

    Just the evrytime I meet a girl she runs off is enuff for me..

    Do u find that about other ppl as well?? n animals(except parrotts).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol... well better ive it a rest for a bit now.. least till after the pizza
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just 1 more thing.. u think this topic is gonna b as famous as the last 1???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dirty_harry:
    ya beat me to it,

    Im just stating my opinion here but having a long term relationship with a goth is not what girls want.

    maybe good dancing company for the nite in the pirate costume but when they find out u really r a pirate they kinda walk off the plank.

    ROFL... well yeah I know I did.. but Turtle beat me... but I gotta make up for it!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FOR FUCKS SAKE GIVE IT A REST IT WAS BORING THE FIRST TIME ROUND AND IS EVEN MORE SO THIS TIME ROUND GIVE THE GUY A BREAK !!!

    LUKA

    The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmmmm no
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If u dont like it, dont read it.. we got a little thing called freedom of speech in this country so I think I'm allowed to say what I think
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i agree with luka.

    daze there may be freedom of speech, but theres also such a thing as harassment. and people like karla are here to stop that happening on here of all places.

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Harassment?? i aint even started next.

    The point at the bottom of this is that he asked a question y he couldnt get girls.

    FFS.. would n e 1 here go out with a goth who dressed like a 17th Century pirate...

    B honest ppl... for his sake.

    N course I also have a big problem with Goths, n if u read the other thread u'll know y n for those reasons I got every right to b down with goths n everything I say about that lifestyle is true cos of those reasons.
    So dont start telling me I cant have a go at them n personally I really dont get y any of u stick up for them...
    Guess it's cos u dont really know what they're like n havnt listened to the music n havnt seen the clothes/posters/other shit.

    Cos if u have n still think thats okay, then ur just as sick as them
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You've made your point and we've all read it and know how you feel but give the guy a break you bully!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Let it go! He hasn't done any harm to you!

    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rofl... I pissed every1 in the entire site off last time he was on the boards, u think I mind doing it again.
    I aint done nuffing wrong no personell shit this time... yet..

    Just stating my feelings about goths n the more I do it the more I get heard n the more ppl will get it into their minds not to b goths..
    Far as Im concerned u get 14 yr old kids reading this site.
    Impressionable age.. If we start making out being goth is alright they might end up looking like a ferak, no g/fs n cutting themselves for the next 10 years till they grow out of it... by that time fuck knows wot they coulda done to themselves.. as I said in the other thread... almost killed 2 of my friends...

    I'm not gonna quieten down about this.

    U ppl who think I should u wait till u grow up n have children n they get dragged into the lifestyle... u'll wish u had said summing about it then.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    n as we're gonna get into this again y'all go read that topic again... cos now i remember y i haste the little freaky fuck so much
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