Should I go 4 it?

BillieTheBot

OK i'll try & explain this as short as i can. Last nite (Sat) i went 2 the pub wit 1 of my mates. I met this lovely guy called Matt (he even bought me a red rose), the problem is, is that i told him i woz 18 & he is 20!!
He txt me this morning 2 c how i woz etc & i told him by txt that i woz only 16. He woz really pissed off & said he didn't want ne thing 2 do wit me but about an hr ago he foned me & said he woz sorry & that he really likes me it woz just a bit of a shock finding out i woz 16 & he didn't like the fact i'd lied 2 him.
He said he'd like 2 meet me again but b4 he asked me out he said could we just 'see each other' for a while.
I said i wasn't sure (he knows i've only just split up wit my bf).
I've been single for nearly a month since my last bf who i have been having a lot of problems wit even now & i woz wondering if it sounds like i'm on the rebound & if u think i should go 4 it wit Matt.
I know sum of u r probably thinking he only wants me 4 sex but i told him i woz a virgin & he said that he wouldn't pressurise me in2 doin ne thing i didn't want 2 do etc.
Wot shall i do?!?

Former Member

First of all, you should make 100% sure in yer own mind that u like Matt for who he is, and that you arent just goin with him on rebound to get over ure ex.

Second, you gotta ask ureself why u dont just wanna "see him" first, becoz often I find thats the way to go, and if it doesnt work out then it saves a lot of heartache.

But becoz he doesnt want u for sex is a good sign, and he sounds like a half decent bloke. Try really hard to show that he can trust you, and that the lie about ure age woz just a one off.

Take care + good luck

Girl-From-Mars

have you read the whole rebound topic fabuk_girlie? it says pretty much all my feelings on the rebound matter!

if you're sure you're over your ex, and dont want him back... then i dont see any reason not to go for it with matt. although there is the problem whether you're just going out with him coz you feel you need someone... but if thats not the case, then go for it, and good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Former Member

Thanx 4 ur replies. Matt foned me & we r goin 2 the cinema on Wed so i'm gonna c how that goes b4 i decide ne thing! I'll tell u how it went!

Former Member

Hello! It went really well @ the cinema on Wed! He even drove me home! We have decided 2 start 'seeing' each other 4 the mo! We r goin bowling on Mon nite & he is picking me up from my house. I'll tell u how that goes as well! I'm just so happy @ the mo! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Former Member

congratulations fabukgirlie!

i'm glad things r working out 4u and ur happy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Former Member

I love it when people come back & tell us the good stuff, thanks ukgirlie <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Former Member

take it day by day.... my advice.
Look it's better that your don't start to date your ex's best mates etc. soooooo have a change, see this guy but don't lead him on.....

Former Member

Bowling went well as well! We r still only 'seeing' each other but that is all i want @ the mo after all the shit i've had from my last relationship (which is still goin on!)
Kat he doesn't even know my ex bf but i went out wit my ex's best mate b4 him so i know wot u mean about goin out wit ex's best mates!