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Better of without them!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
well i feel alot better after my last post,i've had sleep,thanx WhizzyGirl!But i cant eat,my mum sayz i'm gonna turn anarexic(cant spell),but if i cant eat why force myself! All my friends have been really understanding!But for now single is for me!!
Love GrizzlyB

PS: I was talking to this really gorgeous guy, he asked me if i was ok,this guy is sooo lush!!! Mmmm is it 2 soon,to meet anyone?? What the hell,i'll do it! Let u's Know how it goes!!!

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    grizzly, glad you feel better <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    when i broke up with my boyfriend, that seemed to me the ideal time to go and meet someone else. and there were people around me sayign not to coz everyone would end up getting hurt, but i didnt listen to them. but they're right, you need to give it some time to get over your last relationship before you embark on a new one, even though you feel thats EXACTLY what you need to help get over the last one.

    your feelings can get confused after a relationship ending, especially if its a long term one and you were in love and shitty stuff happens at or near the end. it may be better off waiting a while to see if your feelings for this guy stay the same, or if they fade away, along with the realisation you dont need anyone else to make you feel happy, you do that all by yourself.

    im one to talk! lol.. i feel like i need someone, and feel like somethigns missing at the moment. i have good friends... but they all have their own troubles, and one is extremely fickle and i can never tell what shes thinking or why she does stuff. and she isnt always there for me. but the other friends i have are great, 3 of them seem to be male, and just to prove my rebound theory, ive developed feelings for 2 of them!! the other one was luckily away right in the middle of all this, so didnt get on the receiving end of my reboundness! he has a girlfriend too. my feelings are still there for these guys. i just know it aint gonna work i think, which kind of makes me sad. wrong timing and stuff for both me, and the other two! wrong place too for one! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    anyway im totally rambling. sorry! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; maybe you should just get to know mr.lush before rushinh into any relationship, those built on friendship already are halfway there! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    glad u feel better grizzly b.

    b careful ur not on da rebound wiv dis other guy.
    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't know why, but for me the fastest way to get over an ex is to get someone new...and better! :> ) but of course, u have to be honest that u really do like him and not using him to get over ur ex...it's a big trap that u can easily fall into - take it from me, i've been there!
    i enjoy being single sometimes, esp after a breakup cuz i need the time and i miss going out flirting with other guys. but after a while, sometimes i get bored of it and want a relationship - despite all the problems it comes attached to that word! but if u really like him - go for it!!
    xox
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