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First Night Sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Howdy! Just wanted to ask, does great first night sex ever exist? If it could, what would it be like and what would happen? (hints wanted!)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, of course great first night sex exists but whether u experience or not is quite a different kettle of socks.

    It depends on a few things, virginity is one thing, for some girls losing their virginity can be painful, for others they don't notice.
    It's also a case of experience, if one is experienced while the other is not, then the first time will probably be a good one. If you're BOTH un-experienced the result may be a tad clumsy (it was for me anyways) but if at first u don't succeed...


    ...look it up on the internet <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    may you experience many fantabulous love-fests, my child
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    one thing is certain, nerves can be right fuckers at time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    very aptly put, another suggestion is to probably keep it simple the first time round

    when ur a learner driver u don't do the F1 circuit in a ford escort. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by mavrm:
    Howdy! Just wanted to ask, does great first night sex ever exist? If it could, what would it be like and what would happen? (hints wanted!)


    Do you meen first night you met the person, or first time ever?

    j9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Alright then, I'll rephase it: The first time you have sex
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    it bloody hurts!!! but if you an get past that it can be good if you have like candles and romantic stuff like that. oh lots of foreplay or it hurts more! and it makes it more fun generally.. i dunno, ask me when im sober!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IF YOU WANT ILL HAVE FIRST NIGHT SEX? THEN WE CAN SEE IF ITS GREAT!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LEANNE:
    IF YOU WANT ILL HAVE FIRST NIGHT SEX? THEN WE CAN SEE IF ITS GREAT!

    Umm, Why dont you go out? The chances are you will never meet anyone here who you will actually meet. If you really want sex, try a dating agency and not the discussion boards.
    p.s.What sort of sex?
    J/K

    Join the Army and travel the world, meet new and exciting people and kill them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Agreed - candles, foreplay will make it all better.

    Also - don't expect that the first time will be like it is on tv. Like others have said, its clumsy, it bloody hurts etc.

    Also - keep it short the first time and give the girl (or if you are the girl) rest up a little before you do it again.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    candles.. hmm think i missed that 1.. think the fact i was in a big field r00led the candles out.
    my first time was ok for me.. short n sweet n e way <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">.. dunno bout the girl,m but she kept comin back for more so it couldnt of been that bad... but it wasnt her first time.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    candles are good! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; all helps to create a nice atmosphere, the thought of just stripping off entirely in harsh bright light with someone was just far too scary at first!! and pitch black's no good coz you cant see anything and i can just imagine hilarious situations from that...!

    being comfortable with the person helps, being able to trust them, and care about htem etc.

    i have a feeling ive gone off on a totally different tangent...
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    and pitch black's no good coz you cant see anything and i can just imagine hilarious situations from that...!


    What you mean like going up the wrong hole?

    Im sure some ppl would love it *sniggers*

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It never hurt me my first time or the onr after that etc etc... only when theyve been huuuuuuuge, n even then its only for a tiny bit whilst you get into it, i must have a bucket or something, rofl.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    After many failed attempts with my boyf, when we finally did the business he had to tell my i had been devirgined, coz i didn't believe it. It was no big deal for me, maybe the fumbling at first got me prepared and nerves wasn't an issue i dunno. But if you are worried don't be, if it feels good, go with the flow otherwise ask yourself do u really want to do this?
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