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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I just been dumped by my gf (again). It got me thinking about all the girls that I have known (even just as mates), and i made a mental list in my head, and i realised 99% of them r not talkin to me anymore.

I dunno WHAT it is about me. I do try to care, and b there for people, but it is really hard. I'm 17 and im starting to think i will never meet the right person.

If I dont know what it is about me that I am doing wrong, how can i stop it happening again ??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mojo:
    I just been dumped by my gf (again). It got me thinking about all the girls that I have known (even just as mates), and i made a mental list in my head, and i realised 99% of them r not talkin to me anymore.

    I dunno WHAT it is about me. I do try to care, and b there for people, but it is really hard. I'm 17 and im starting to think i will never meet the right person.

    If I dont know what it is about me that I am doing wrong, how can i stop it happening again ??

    17 and starting to worry bout not meeting the right person? Mate, you really gotta relax, trust me. You've got years yet!! There's also the fact that there is never a right person...it can seem it, but very very rarely is there the perfect person, the person you will fall into a deep love with for the rest of eternity. You will find someone, remain optimistic. But don't get too distraught when relationships end, especially not at this stage.



    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mojo:
    I dunno WHAT it is about me. I do try to care, and b there for people, but it is really hard. I'm 17 and im starting to think i will never meet the right person.

    Don't worry mate, i feel like that all the time. Everyone i have been wiv has fcuked me around. I just don't give a shit anymore, and neither should u.



    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mojo:
    I just been dumped by my gf (again). It got me thinking about all the girls that I have known (even just as mates), and i made a mental list in my head, and i realised 99% of them r not talkin to me anymore.

    I dunno WHAT it is about me. I do try to care, and b there for people, but it is really hard. I'm 17 and im starting to think i will never meet the right person.

    If I dont know what it is about me that I am doing wrong, how can i stop it happening again ??

    I never talk to any of my past boyfriends (including my ex-husband). It took me until I was 30 b4 I found a man who I could get on with, long term & who made me feel genuinely loved.

    Only trouble was, I thought each one was "the one" each time. I only know that my husband is right for me because we are still together 10 yrs on.

    You'll meet someone who you "click" with Mojo, so don't worry & have fun in the meantime <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    j9



    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    mojo, i kinda know how you feel. well it used to be worse 3 years ago, when i was 15, and i didnt even have any particularly good friends, and i kept having long in depth convos with my net friend in america about our fears of never finding the right person, or even anyone to love us and for us to love.

    well i met someone, from the net, and we were together 16 months. he was my first boyfriend, and i know i was in love with him. not at the end, we drifted apart and it wasnt workign out, but i was convinced it was never gonna happen to me. we broke up about a month ago and its still kinda hard adjusting to being single again. only prob is, i wish i had a boyfriend, not him, id rather be single than g oout with him again, i just wish i coudl have someone to care about me and someone to love, and all the other things that go along with a relationship. i cant think of anyone who i would want to go out with in my current area, who would want to go out with me. ive kinda resigned myself to the fact i wont find anyone till uni in 9 months time, at least. but i know there is someone else out there who will love me.

    the same applies to you, you havent found anyone yet, most of my friends havent had any kind of relationship at all, let alone been in love. you're only young, it takes time to find someone suitable for you, you will probabyl make many mistakes and go out with people who are wrong for you, but you WILL find someone <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; just dont expect it to happen immediately, but theres someone out there for you.

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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