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MASSIVE CRISIS HERE !!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I feel really sick inside, all because of this thing that happened last night. This Chelsea girl (who KNEW I was interested in her), has taken it upon herself to go and get another bf. Yes, I know its her life etc, but she kept me hangin for days, thinking that I might have something with her. I feel even worse than I did when I was two timed a while back, no doubt about it. Even worse, this other girl asked me out yesterday, and I sat her down and explained all about my feelings for Chelsea etc. She then ran away crying which made me feel really bad inside.
My head is all over the place here, I cant turn round and say yes to the girl now, coz she will probably find out today that Chelsea wasnt interested in me. I just dont know what to do for the best.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mojo:
    I feel really sick inside, all because of this thing that happened last night. This Chelsea girl (who KNEW I was interested in her), has taken it upon herself to go and get another bf. Yes, I know its her life etc, but she kept me hangin for days, thinking that I might have something with her. I feel even worse than I did when I was two timed a while back, no doubt about it. Even worse, this other girl asked me out yesterday, and I sat her down and explained all about my feelings for Chelsea etc. She then ran away crying which made me feel really bad inside.
    My head is all over the place here, I cant turn round and say yes to the girl now, coz she will probably find out today that Chelsea wasnt interested in me. I just dont know what to do for the best.


    If you already gave the other girl the reasons, she will understand that you are upset. Tell her and ask for her sympathy & understanding, you might find yourself drift into a relationship with her, that is, if you want to.

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    j9


    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sometime things just don't work out the way u want them to eh?

    I ges i can only realy say dat if she wud rather go out wiv another guy than u then shes not worf it.

    As for the other gurl, apologise and if u like her, try 2 b friends.

    Hope it works out <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey first off congratulations to you, it might not sem like it but telling the other girl aobout your feelings for chelsea girl was a goond move, you said yourself how upset it made you feel being strung along, and trust me i know what it feels like. As for Chelsea girl, and again I talk from experience, distance yourself from her, youve just got to force yourself away from her and trust me, it will work, not doing this could result in an obsession and a label, I got that, and only because I let unrequited love get the better of me! hope I helped, good luck dude

    D K

    I never said I loved you...
    However I will fuck you...
    until someone better comes along!!!!
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