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Difficult One.....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
After that girls last post, this isnt that big a deal, but anyway.Right I havent had that many girls, so I'm a bit short on experience here. I met this girl on the internet (yeah I know wot ure thinking !!!), but she lives quite nearby (20 odd miles). We struck up a really interesting conversation, and she told me she fancied me. This was really cool, as I liked the sound of her, and we swapped mobile numbers and names etc. Then I said I had to go, but I hadnt really, I just didnt want her to think I usually spent my saturday nights in on the computer. I cant stop thinking about her, and this is quite unusual for me, as I dont usually have feelings for girls on the net. But she sounded so gorgeous, on her pic she had blonde hair and blue eyes, and her names Chelsea. I just dunno wot to do next !!! I dont want to bombard her with texts, phone calls etc coz she will think I'm despertae (which I am not).I know I should give her time, but i just cannot get her off my mind. Wot else can I do ???

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go no text her, all the girls i know really appreciate texts cos it takes time to type it all in.

    if she likes up make her happy and chat to her alot, text her all the time telling her what ur doing (girls love that) and maybe goet together, she may be ur future wife.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    dont go overboard on stuff like that straight away. youve only talked to this girl once. how can she know that she fancies you after this short time? or have you sent her a pic? either way, relationships arent built on physical attraction only, you need to have things in common and get on well too. i think you should talk to her a little bit more on the net first, yeah and with the occasional text maybe, and if you still think you like her, you should suggest meeting up with her sometime and see how she reacts. and maybe talk to her on the phone before you meet up. and i dont need to tell you about meeting in a public place! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    and another thing... if you do happen to talk again, dont just say you have to go if its a lie, if you do go out with her then she will realise how much time you do spend on the net! anyway, its a good thing, coz you'll get to know each other better in a shorter amount of time.

    so anyway good luck! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Her mate just phoned me up and said she said yeah to going out with me !!!!!!!!. Yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee !!!!!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mojo:
    Her mate just phoned me up and said she said yeah to going out with me !!!!!!!!. Yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee !!!!!!!!!

    What? You're going out with her mate now?
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nice one, interent g/fs do work. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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