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Back with a girl.............

JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this is really up to you. its your deal, she obviously wants you back again. and some relationships go on and off for years. the question is, are you willing to be around for a while, then let her dump you again?because it seems to be a bit of a pattern. i assuming youve played the "if you dump me this time its over" card a few times before. if you do decide to go out with her this time, that has to be clear. however if its just de ja vou (sp?) then it wont have the same affect.
    this girl obviously knows uve got feelings for you-could it be possible that she's using you for what she wants and dumping you when she gets bored? or do you argue? its really about why you were dumped that answers this question.
    if you think you can make it work, or if you are willing to face the likely possibility that she will do it again, then go ahead. but if you cant, i think you should give yourself a bit more credit. plenty more fish in the sea..
    fast as you can baby run free yourself of me fast as you can.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how come she dumped u? .. or is that too personal?
    i may be soft in your palm, but i'll soon grow hungry for a fight-and i will not let you win.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm afraid honesty is needed here (boo). I think your best bet would be to ask her what she's up to next time she flirts or whatever. If she's gone out with you three times and dumped you in each case, the odds are stacked against you if you just go for it and ask her out again. Maybe she misses the attention? Ask her what she's trying to achieve with these hints, and say you don't want to waste your time getting dumped again for what would appear to be no good reason. If she really likes you (she's gone out with you 3 times, maybe she's just nervous about something?) then you should be able to clear it up, and go out without wondering if you're headed for disaster again. Ask her straight out.

    Good luck

    *|* Chica *|*

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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    kk
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No offence but i think she is just using u when she needs sum1 there. I mean 3 times you've been out wit her & then dumped.......do u really think its worth it? Coz if she's done it b4 she will probably do it again! In my opinion i don't think u should start another relationship wit her coz you'll just end up getting hurt again!
    But i wish u all the best in wot u do decide! XxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Move on matey.
    This sounds like the classic case of "oooh, I dont have a boyfriend, I know, so and so is guaranteed to say yes". It is highly unlikely that she has even remotely changed in the space of a few months. Next time she asks you out surprise her and tell her you arent that stupid.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd be worried about her motives, it does sound to me like you are part if her "I need an emotional boost" system.

    Think carefully about it before you throw yourself back into a potentially damaging relationship.

    j9
    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
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