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Girls Vs Guys in Fights
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Has any guy ever been attacked by a women for no reason whatsoever?
And if so what did you do?
Tonight we went to Brighton and I went off on my own taking photos.
Then all of a sudden this pyscho girl comes up to me with the neck of a broken glass bottle threatening to bottle me with it.
Her Male friend gets her to release the bottle but she still manages to punch me on the side of the head, for no reason at all. I was kinda stunned by the whole thing and I was on my own whilst she was with about 5 other people, none of whom seemed to be going out of their way to stop her.
Was probabaly too stunned to thinking about hitting her back and then my thoughts turned to the fact I was wearing glasses and not my contacts at the time and if they broke I wouldn't be able to drive the 80 miles back home, or the expensive camera in my hand would be smashed or the other 3 or so guys wouldn't just let me defend myself if I did hit her back they'd join in and 4 against 1 wouldn't be great odds.
Also thought of HollyOaks episode where Mandy has been beating up Tony and the one time he defends himself he's the one the Police arrest.
And if so what did you do?
Tonight we went to Brighton and I went off on my own taking photos.
Then all of a sudden this pyscho girl comes up to me with the neck of a broken glass bottle threatening to bottle me with it.
Her Male friend gets her to release the bottle but she still manages to punch me on the side of the head, for no reason at all. I was kinda stunned by the whole thing and I was on my own whilst she was with about 5 other people, none of whom seemed to be going out of their way to stop her.
Was probabaly too stunned to thinking about hitting her back and then my thoughts turned to the fact I was wearing glasses and not my contacts at the time and if they broke I wouldn't be able to drive the 80 miles back home, or the expensive camera in my hand would be smashed or the other 3 or so guys wouldn't just let me defend myself if I did hit her back they'd join in and 4 against 1 wouldn't be great odds.
Also thought of HollyOaks episode where Mandy has been beating up Tony and the one time he defends himself he's the one the Police arrest.
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I mean, is it RIGHT to hit anybody?!
And what if you hit a man weaker than you? Is it still right then? What if men and women were of generally equal strength? Would it still be wrong to hit women then?!
Do unto others as they would do unto you; so don't hit people, no matter your or their gender. Also, I do realise that some girls are actually very strong and could probably beat their fair share of guys up, but generally it's all talk, they seem to think all you need to do is knee a guy in the balls
I feel sorry for my mate tho...he had to kiss the skallywag to calm her down
Though I do feel sorry for guys when they're put in that situation, especially for you DiamondGeezer. I mean as you say, that girl got away with beating u for no reason but to defend yourself from a girl... they would make you out to be the worst in the world.
Never been involved in a fight with a woman before. I doubt I'd attack back though.
That's the best thing if any about the USA, if someone attacks you and you defend yourself then the police will probably support you, over here they'll more likey ruin your life and lock you up.
They seem to view everything like you can't go to far and only use measured amounts of force to stop someone, but what if there's one person attacking you and they have 6 friend looking on ready to get stuck into you as well.
It's beginning to hit me that I could have died last night, when that crazy phycho was walking around with a big broken bottle in her hands, once cut to the throat and I could have bled to death. If she'd had it in her hands when she punched me on the side I'd easy have been disfigured for life. Which would probably have killed my confidence, made jobs interviews more difficult, meeting new people, etc.
Makes me think ...
Actually i think i'd be slightly more lily to pre-emptivly strike a man than a woman, as I'm more likly to consider myself threatened, but that comes more down to size, streangth and aggression rather than plain gender.
If a girl does hit you, it's funny to stare at her for a second and then laugh. Not a "mwhaha" laugh, for it's too fake - Actually make it look like you're going to piss yourself and as if you're trying your hardest to stop it. Then she'll either get really pissed and hit you again or stand down, like the bitch should. If she keeps hitting you just go "AGAIN BITCH", "HIT MEEEE", "AGAIN" "OLOLLOL". Eventually she'll realise that she's no stronger than hospital tea and run away. [/untried method]
I agree :yes: but I don't believe it's Ok for either party to use excessive force.
A woman (who's not all there in the head) flipped out in this pub and was thrown out by the manager (who's not a small guy)... and she tried to come in again and lunged at him... now she's not of big frame or anything... yet he started punching her in the face, dragged her outside... threw her against the wall & when she fell over started kicking her.
If you wanna start a fight... why not fight somebody who's of equal strength? There's no way that woman could defend herself even if she did start the fight and she could have easily been restrained painlessly by somebody of his height and build.
But now, I think I have enough control on my anger to not hit anyone again except if they really, really deserve it, and in that (very unlikely) case I'd have no regrets regardless of their gender.
She says that seeing as women are on an equal playing field on everything else these days, and that she's stronger than most of the boys in my year, I should be able to do it.
However, she's still a girl. I have enough trouble punching boys, however much they have wound me up, let alone having a swing at a girl.
Called the Police for what?
Please explain how calling the Police helps you when someone has a smashed bottle in their hand and is standing 2 feet away from you? And there is 5 or 6 friends of hers, half of them guys standing all around you?
Ok.. I never wanna get on the wrong side of you :no:
:no: *Scared* but you or kermit would hurt me :crying:
No, her AND Kermit would hurt you:p
I'm scared of her too :yes:
and I don't blame you.. her screen name scares me:(
No, I mean afterwards! It's better than letting her get away with it, surely?!
(I do kick boxing).
A good kick to the ribs will stop them.
I would never hit a woman in an argument or if they did something to really piss me off but if they hit me I would retaliate.
If you hit anyone (man or woman) you should only do it if you expect to be hit back. Girls piss me off when they say "I twatted this lad and this lad and this lad" etc. when not one of the lads has even defended himself, anyone can twat someone who is not fighting back.
Thought about it but didn't want to ruin everyone else's day out in Brighton, also if anything came of it didn't fancy treking back all the way to Brighton for a day in court, etc.
You're lucky you weren't charged with assault!