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Get over him???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I can't get over my ex! I went out with him about 7 onths ago! And we split up cos he cudnt really b bothered!
Since then iv had a few boyfriends but as soon as i finish with them i go back onto my ex!
What doesnt help is the fact him or his friends txt or call me about once a month to invite me out or see how i am or if i fancy him.
But thenas soon as i seem interested in him he blows cold and starts ignoring me!
I really what to do i need help!!!!!!!!!

I just wanna be loved!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What exactly do you need help with? You said it yourself he blows you out every time you show intrest again - so why would you wanna be with someone like that AGAIN. So he couldn't be bothered with the relationship last time, what makes you so sure it's gonna be different this time?? Your gonna keep going round in circles with him until you end up getting angry - hurt or very very confused. You said you want to be loved, and to be honest I don't this guy will provide it for you. Do exactly what the subject of this problem says - Get over him!! - or get hurt. Your choice!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Best way to get over someone is a combination of time and hatred.
    You need at least 2 months, and in these 2 months you need to concentrate on EVERYTHING you hated about him.
    You need to talk to him, and argue, you need to really begin to hate the bastard.

    Only then, will you get over him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It should be hard getting over him, he obviously doesn't know what he wants, and sounds like he's using you a bit, why would you want that?

    Just leave him and ignore him, trust me.

    Phil.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But i've been trying to get over him for 8 months and i can't!!
    I've had 3 boyfriends since then but i keep falling for him again and again!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your going towards your ex because he's there, its easy and you know what your in for...better the devil you know hey? Theres a reason it didnt work the first time and unless you can put that, in front of your adoration for your old flame, its a rush hour M25 situation...all together now...round and round and round... <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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