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"Will you go out with me?"
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Okey. some of you will be aware that through extreme amounts of luck (and/or alcohol), I have found a girlfriend. Well...i think I've found a gf. Actually, i'm pretty sure, but....
Newa...I'll explain why I have this doubt:
Basically, we met at this Xmas party of a mutual friend - nothing happened, just started talking, ended up holding hands (didn't even get a kiss in, more to my friends disappointment than my own! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">). Met up with her today, talked, cuddled down by the lake - stuff you would only do if you've hooked up. So basically, in my mind, we seem fairly well set-up. But talking to one of my mates, he keeps insisting I still need to get the basics done first - ie I need to actually ask her out. however, I'd feel pretty stupid doing this.
What do you guys think? Agree with me - don't bother, or agree with me mate - ask her out.
Thanx for the help (which means you HAVE to give it me!)
DM
Viti kuin muuri.
Newa...I'll explain why I have this doubt:
Basically, we met at this Xmas party of a mutual friend - nothing happened, just started talking, ended up holding hands (didn't even get a kiss in, more to my friends disappointment than my own! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">). Met up with her today, talked, cuddled down by the lake - stuff you would only do if you've hooked up. So basically, in my mind, we seem fairly well set-up. But talking to one of my mates, he keeps insisting I still need to get the basics done first - ie I need to actually ask her out. however, I'd feel pretty stupid doing this.
What do you guys think? Agree with me - don't bother, or agree with me mate - ask her out.
Thanx for the help (which means you HAVE to give it me!)
DM
Viti kuin muuri.
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"No." Not only would it hurt, but it would completely blow my mind! :-)
Newa, you're right. Thanx for the advice.
Viti kuin muuri.
Just say, look I really like you and would like to make this a more deffinate thing. How would you feel about us being an item.
I dunno, Im sure you can think of something better along those lines! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> Good luck!!!
Grow old but never grow up.
I agree with glass slipper lady, just think of something romantic to say, look into her eyes, and she looks back the same way, then kiss her. That normally sorts things out <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.
If she's already gone skiing or wherever she was going for Christmas (that was you wasn't it) then I guess you'd better make sure you ring her. Good luck.
But thanx for the help newa. Alway appreciated. You lot are wonderful. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
DM
Viti kuin muuri.
The prospect of confirming that this relationship is up and running is almost as frightning as asking someone out in the first place - so just go with the flow and speak your mind if the situation arises.
So long as you phrase it in such a way that can't be answered with the word 'no' then you have nothing to lose <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">)
Good luck, soldier.
[This message has been edited by DaBrainz (edited 20-12-2000).]
i think u should change ur name to "DaBrainlezz" or sommit.
And why have you started being so friendly - you're the only admin that get's down with us peons. We'll steal all your stars from you if you don't watch your back. Us common filth, you administrator.
Viti kuin muuri.