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Your ideal partener
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What is your ideal partener based on looks and why?
By this i dont mean britany spears, brad pitt or anyone like that. I mean realistic people. Heres my example of my perfect partener:
A punk, skater or grungery dressed girl around 5 foot to 5 foot 6 high. Dark hair (longer the better) which is straight. Nice slim body with not very big boobs. Acts cute, for example when sitting down watching tv she pulls herself into a ball if you know what i mean, the cute kinda way. A little shy and very caring/loving girl. I like this type because everytime i see or meet a girl like this im instantly in love lol.
So what are your ideal parteners?
(If i get verbally abused by this thread in anyway i will not care
)
Thank you
By this i dont mean britany spears, brad pitt or anyone like that. I mean realistic people. Heres my example of my perfect partener:
A punk, skater or grungery dressed girl around 5 foot to 5 foot 6 high. Dark hair (longer the better) which is straight. Nice slim body with not very big boobs. Acts cute, for example when sitting down watching tv she pulls herself into a ball if you know what i mean, the cute kinda way. A little shy and very caring/loving girl. I like this type because everytime i see or meet a girl like this im instantly in love lol.
So what are your ideal parteners?
(If i get verbally abused by this thread in anyway i will not care
)Thank you
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Style wise I couldn't go out with anyone who lived in tracksuits!
Personality wise I guess my perfect partner would be someone who challenged me on an intellectual level, liked to read, could have a good debate but who was also funny, charming and romantic.
No wonder I'm single, hehe! :rolleyes:
Someone who's tall, has dark hair, and a nice personality, they have to make me laugh, be there for me when i need them and not to be over-possesive. I think.
Slightly sarcastic, slightly stubbon, mature minded but not to mature, happy go lucky type of person, someone that is not a push over, aged around 20-25, Mediterranean looking or at least darkish skin. Dark brown or black hair, brown eyes, nice arse, good legs and midrif. Chest size 34b, have the same taste in music, must like to get drunk also must know how to dress nicely, prefibly owns her own house and can drive. A big turn off is snobby girls, clingy ones and woman who wear to much makeup. Good luck me!
Liking football would be a bounus.
If any females here fit that description then you could be one very lucky girl
Plus, his white shoes must go. He's such a big kid, be bought a suti the other day for his Mam's boyfriend's daughter's wedding so he looks like the wee mad Hitman dude from the PS2 game. :rolleyes:
I like the way he is mind. But I also like that I don't always like the way he is, makes him more appealing because he isn't so conformed if ya know what I mean. No? Me either, tbh. He's dead fit mind, ooh yar.
i go for the trendy hair cut and diesel look.
personality, all i require is to get on with her, for her to have some depth and her own opinions but open minded still, and one i can have a joke with whilst able to be serious with
sharing same interests is good
oh and no big hoop earrings
Have we had this conversation before on msn?
Its nice to see that not one girl has mentioned a bad boy yet, very impressive
Just for the record, i dress all trendy (urban style jeans and tshirts).
5ft 6 to 6 ft 2 guy, pale, longish dark hair, deep and beautiful eyes, really soft skin, clean shaven, slim. though personality means so much more to me these days.
girls wise:
cheeky looking, slim, shortish dark hair, again the eyes....but again personality is so much more important...
style? relaxed. loose jeans. a bit knackered and worn, but cause he's had them a long time, not cause he's spent £200 on a pair of 'factory distressed' designer jeans. trainers, tees, short sleeved shirts. he looks good, but in a kind of effortless way. and he looks like he just threw on the first things he came too, but not in a kind of 'first t-shirt that smells clean' kinda way. i have a thing for men in plain, round-necked t-shirts. not sure why.
Physically, what I go for are girls about 5'4 - 5'8, slender with small boobs, a lovely flat tummy (but with no jutting hip bones) and a lovely cute pert bum. A long slender neck seems to get me going too, accoprding to the missus who notes who I eye up and suggests others I might have missed.
But character and personality is what really counts, as my girl doesn't have small boobs.
What personality I go for is kinda the giggly girly cute sort of thing- someone who can cook, who can be an intelligent debater, but who loves acting as childishly as I do.
About 5"2, small to medium breasts, slim, but still with curves
but of course we all know personality is the winner. I like gals that r kinda cute (as outlined in other posts), but not too cute! lol. Inteligence is a big one, like someone who is not only smart but you can debate or have conversations with them and be on the same wavelength. Can't forget a sense of humour. I also like it when the gal is a little modest.
If shes into rock and is a rock chick of any kind then its just one big huge bonus!
btw, have you noticed that guys on here like cute gals? hmmm interesting :rolleyes:
Peace
Be nice if she was about the same height as me, really nice eyes and a pretty face. I've got a thing for dark haired girls just now. Ideally, she'd be trendy, but not be one of these girls who just seem to dress like whatever's in, or in clothes that blatantly don't suit them. Not really into the short skirt slapper brigade type, really.
Personality wise. Past experience dictates that it'd be good if she actually had a personality. Be good if she was the talkative type, bring me out of my shell. Also, she can't be one of those types that think they're God's gift to men (the fit but they know it type) and that it's an honour for me to be in her presence. A bit of personal insecurity is sooo sexy. Also, somebody who didn't have any pre-concieved ideas of the perfect relationship, somebody who thinks relationships should start on an equal footing.
I'm off relationships for the next zillion years, so t'is alll hypothetical.
Nice to see a lot of guys liking cute girls as well and not the short skirt love themself type.
I don't really have a physical type although I don't tend to like blondes that much. I'd go for. No hight range but I do like older girls.. the more mature type.. From about 17-22/23 not much older than that.
Personlality wise, someone who is caring, thoughtful and kind. Someone who loves reading and talking, just sometimes laying there and just going out, also someone who isn't to bothered on how they look. I don't mean someone who doesn't dress up but someone who doesn't go buy all designer stuff, someoene with a licking for the extreame and exciting life also someone who would love to travel, some one layed back and mainly someone who liked me for whom I am..
I hate those, on any kind of woman, from townie hoop earrings to the big 80s style ones, they're just gross. :eek2:
:yes: they're rank
Im suprised too, i thought i was the only guy who preferred them to be smaller. I guess im not the only one after all.
Personly I don't care if girls boobs are big or small.. doesn't matter really does it?
Small boobs look nicer, because they are naturally more pert and perky.
But big boobs look delicious too, and are more fun :yes:
Lookswise: taller than me, slim (but not skinny), nice eyes
Personality: Someone that makes me feel safe, someone I can have good discussions and a good laugh with. Not someone who agrees with everything I say or likes everything that I do, cos that would be boring imo.
Yay, I just described my boyfriend!
As to the boobs thing I think that when it comes to relationships, most blokes aren't as shallow as they would have us think. I'm a 32F and I do get a lot of ogling in the street, but none of my boyfriends have been as obsessed with them as you might have thought!
and just for the record, read www.laddertheory.com
it carefully states the things women say they want in a man only o**** for 10%
money/power is 50%
im such a cynic
passes sick bag around
Anyway phsically. i dont mind height really. Have a thing for petite gals or tall ones. but it doesnt matter. Hair, i prefer brunettes. But i dont mind. Prefer natural colour hair though. I like really pretty girls. With nice eyes and a good smile. I have a thing for noses aswell. I like hands also. esp fingernails, duno why. Prefer them tanned. But dont mind.
um... and ofcorse i nice big pair of tits. Nice bum. And must have atleast average legs. I love legs. And i hate skinny girls.:yuck:
Must have a good dress sense aswell.
lol sorry that made me laugh
tall -er than me if possible
dark hair-not shorter than 1inch but not long and not neat
dark eyes
sideburns
smells good
non hairy
not skinny, not muscly, not fatty
nicely dressed (no dodgy shirts)
and personality...
washes lots
hygeinic
funny without knowing it or trying
not up himself
honest
friendly, polite
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