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help me before i go crazy!
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My girlfriend and i are in both virgins and in love and want to have sex. but when we have tried i have been unable to get it up once i'm naked. there is nothing wrong with my body or my penis and i get erections around her all the time when i have my clothes on. What can i do to loosen up? i don't want to lose her over this.
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Eyes are the window to ones heart....Tears are the proof that you have one.
Try and have fun as well, dont worry about making mistakes, and remember to practice with the condoms first, u dont want them flinging around the room, although admittedly that could be a good relaxer!
good luck, have fun, dont rush, go with the flow!
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